Is it normal,he haven't say he love me but still committed with me.

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I'm 19 and my bf is 22,We have been in long distance relationship for 5 months now,He will fly for just to seeing me in a weeks for 1month(Me,Thailand and my bf,california guy),we haven't seen each others for 4month since he left.And I was surprised that he doing this for me(we both still in college cos he just off from Marine)

We do skype sometime a week,text sometime,I had talk to his parents via webcame,we don't talk everyday just normal cos i don't mind to let him have space,he do the same.We And we both tell each others everything without asking like who he with and where he gone,and we are not that type of jealousy.I trust him.

Right the problem is,He haven't told me he love me yet(I don't know is this guy into me or just wanna have sex with me),Is it weird ? on our 4th month anniversary I told him I love him 1st,and he replied he have a strong feeling for me,but his latest relationship is not that good,so it took him harder for open new one.but why he committed that i'm his gf?(also he changed his status on facebook)

So I have no idea what I should do,I mean i don't want to put myself too deep if he just wanna play with me(I have a plan to see him in california in my spring break 2011),and his coming pretty close in a weeks,my feeling getting more and more but when I think of it,I just don't know where i am standing,He have a love for me,is this call he love me ?

Is It Normal?
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  • disthing
    12 years ago | pl

    I said I loved a girl once because she said it to me, but the truth was I just couldn't bring myself to say "I have strong feelings for you, but it's not love. Not yet".

    If and when he really does love you, I think he'll tell you, but if you push him he's more likely to be dishonest about his feelings to avoid upsetting you or losing you. 4 months isn't that long.

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  • lalala13
    13 years ago | pl

    I only said that i loved my Ex after like 5 months of relationships. But I loved her much before, its just a little embarasing for men.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago | pl

    ^ This.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago | pl

    It's only been a few months and it takes time. Try not to pressure him or let it affect your relationship. Patience.

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