We agreed after the second meeting that we would be monogamous, but we're both a little relationship phobic due to bad experience (and different life circumstances) that it was just the easier option, and then we gradually turned into a proper relationship, and after we were in a relationship we had sex.
And people react very differently to sexual situations, it is possible to separate physical and emotional, it should be judged on a case by case basis.
With communication, I do see your point. We've always had quite a playful, boundary pushing and slightly dominant relationship, but we do understand consent, and basically, using a safe-word means that no actually means no, as sometimes no can be playful and mean yes.
Is it normal he had sex with me?
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We agreed after the second meeting that we would be monogamous, but we're both a little relationship phobic due to bad experience (and different life circumstances) that it was just the easier option, and then we gradually turned into a proper relationship, and after we were in a relationship we had sex.
And people react very differently to sexual situations, it is possible to separate physical and emotional, it should be judged on a case by case basis.
With communication, I do see your point. We've always had quite a playful, boundary pushing and slightly dominant relationship, but we do understand consent, and basically, using a safe-word means that no actually means no, as sometimes no can be playful and mean yes.