Is it normal he fell out of love?

I'm feeling your pain right now. I, too, have been crying other the same guy for approximately two months. I'm older you, and have more men. But, he was the best. We got along magically. Then he decided he wanted no relationship and to be in his hometown. I know we won't be back together again. I just cling to the fact that I will be happier a little bit each day. I understand you still hurt. You just have to wake up each morning.

Same exact thing happened to me. If u think about it u were probably so in love that u didn't realize what a jerk he was.

he stopped loving you because you fought? that is such a piss-weak excuse. i wouldnt bother with him. just go out and have some fun. use a guy as a rebound, im sure he wont mind and enjoy the single life. i know its hard because you lost your virginity to this guy but most relationships dont work out if they are the person you lost your virginity to. go out and explore other men and you will see there are so many better guys out there and you will forget all about that douche bag. good luck!!

Oh, and by the way don't take it personally that the attraction died. Sometimes it happens when people stay together for too long and lose sight of themselves. You've got to find yourself and get your groove back.

Try breaking off ALL contact for a while. No point being a safety net to someone who's not even sure he wants you. I'm guessing the attraction died but it's not easy to stop loving someone you've been with for so long that easily so he's definitely still attached to you if he's making an effort to maintain the friendship. Time to go out there and have a good time and find yourself, as in the person you were with before you met him. Then perhaps he might come back but by then you'd know better ;)

sometimes people grow apart. sometimes they dont. Maybe he thought he wanted a relationship but after a while decided it was better to ride solo and see what else is out there.
Don't worry.
Keep your head up high. you did nothing wrong.
keep your heart open & don't let the small things he does bother you.
everything happens for a reason.

you will become a stronger person! hang in there!

Swimbikerun has a good point. Never lower your standards. Also keep in mind if you love someone let them go if they come back they are yours forever. People by nature want what they cant have. Right now you want him because he is gone. So turn the table and move on. Have fun, date other people. I am not saying sleep around, I am simply saying don't obsess over him he gets a thrill out of that and will simply play with your emotions.

Don't listen to the above post. Don't compromise yourself. Sounds like you are seeing the situation pretty clearly. Don't lower your standards to the level of some floozy.

Most people have been there and it's not until after you're "over him" that you realize he wasn't the best person for you. Honestly, the best thing you can do is cut off all contact. If you continue to see him and hold on to what's not there you're only continuing to hurt yourself. You will never get over him. I'm a firm believer that if two people are meant to be things will work out. If you don't talk to him and he doesn't eventually try to contact you it wasn't meant to be. If you are meant to be you will end up finding each other again. Call up your girlfriends! They can help you get over most anything. It will be hard but you will be happier in the long run. Good luck!

He's a teenage boy. Nuff said.

As you can see we all have lots of advice to give. You could try every advice given but it won't change the fact that you still love this person. It's very difficult to love some one and not be loved back. My opinion is to enjoy what you feel. It's so good to feel love; as cliche as this sounds but is so true. " better to have loved than to not know love at all" or something like that. Be your self this shall pass.
Keep your chin up!

Martin