IIN he does this ?

I shall address this as your imaginary, sassy, gay BFF:

Honey, he's got problems. *snaps* You need to make him realize he's got you on a rollercoaster. Sure, he's insecure, but that doesn't mean he should put you through hell for it. All the reasons you listed for the breakups, they're all dumb, and he knows it too. It's obvious he's testing you. He doesn't want you to turn out to be a flake and be the one to break his heart instead. He wants to remain in control (straight guy thing), but a relationship is a two-way street, and he should know that you won't keep coming back to him forever. You need to communicate, and tell him, if he wants you, he can't keep you on a leash (You're no French poodle, Honey). You're allowed to talk to other guys as friends. You're allowed to have some time to yourself. You're allowed to do whatever you want to do in your free time (Ooh, Girl, but I don't need the deetz). He doesn't own you. He needs to trust you. Somewhere along the line he lost his trust, but if you're going to stick it out, he needs to find that again, because you haven't lost yours yet, but if he keeps toying with you, you might just.

</gay> :)