Have you tried any other approach rather than making it completely his problem / addiction? It's no one's fault but it's the result of set of circumstances including the over familiarity of a couple, men's basic instinct, and the easy availability of porn. Maybe if you went to couples counselling together to discuss the impact it's having on you, and to make him realise the impact it would have on him, as well as you and the kids, if you kicked him out, then he would realise that he has a heck of a lot to lose and there would be motivation for him to reform.
Is it normal he did this?
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Have you tried any other approach rather than making it completely his problem / addiction? It's no one's fault but it's the result of set of circumstances including the over familiarity of a couple, men's basic instinct, and the easy availability of porn. Maybe if you went to couples counselling together to discuss the impact it's having on you, and to make him realise the impact it would have on him, as well as you and the kids, if you kicked him out, then he would realise that he has a heck of a lot to lose and there would be motivation for him to reform.