Is it normal he cannot get hard.

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Me and boyfriend have been dating for two months and we both believe it was love at first sight. I truly believe he is my soulmate and we have a future together. We decided to wait but when it actually came down to having sex he had a hard time getting hard and two times he stayed hard enough to have intercourse he went limp unable to finish. He is 25 and in decent health. The last woman he was with which was months ago he tried to have sex with the same thing happened. The last time he has truly had intercourse was 6 years ago and it was his first, so you can say I'm going to be his second. He does not masturbate constantly and could relieve himself before with no problems that way. So is this normal!?! Have other couples dealt with this?!? I know he is attracted to me and loves me but maybe this is all a psychological mind trip in his head. I'm going to be patient and continue to love him and be understanding but now I'm just concerned for his own sanity. Helpful comments please.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    It's common..and very frustrating. Happened once to me. Worst thing is how it makes a viscious cycle..worrying that she'll think it's her fault, etc. A doctor can help. A lot of very valuable information and medications available.

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  • kjWA
    12 years ago | pl

    I was seriously in the same situation but me and my bf had been having sex then after a couple weeks we had a week where he wasn't getting up either. he swears he doesn't kno what did it but looking back I think it was because he had ran out if his medication for his epilepsy for a couple days but it proceeded past those couple days... things have been back to normal ever since tho! if he's on meds I deff say it would have something to do with it or maybe he has a hard time feeling comfortable or something? wish I could help I've felt ur pain!

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  • 8Serene8
    12 years ago | pl

    Sounds like it's either a physical problem or a mental problem. Either way he needs to get checked out.

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  • aussiewolf
    12 years ago | pl

    is he a closet homo?

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  • jensapa
    12 years ago | pl

    He should see a doc. Is he on any meds? That could do it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Maybe he's just not into you. This sounds "mean" but,nevertheless, it may be true. Sex is a very mental thing. For whatever reason, being with you sexually is not working for him.

    MY SUGGESTION:

    Keep him as a friend who is a boy and find another guy to fuck.

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