I don't agree there is a certain way to act or feel for a gender. We are all different and so are relationships. Saying one must behave a certain way for such things is naive
You hold a recent trend of thought that seems to downplay gender. And when I mean gender I mean over a decade of getting pumped with different hormones, powerful chemicals, starting three weeks after the child is born.
I go a morning without coffee and I feel completely different, an evening of drinking too much and I feel silly. Testosterone and estrogen are far more powerful than caffeine and ethanol. They change your body and they also change your mind. You may not agree and that's fine, but by the time a boy and a girl are ready for a relationship, they're very different people from chemicals alone.
Sorry, but you are in denial of how people, specifically women, behave in relationships. Women may talk and talk and talk about how they want "more attention" or a "nice guy" but their behaviors towards those same type of guys tell a very different story.
The man who "plays the game" and makes the woman work for his affection is far more successful with women than the guy who is constantly in contact with her. In the movies the "nice guy" may get the girl, but real life is far different. This isn't totally cut and dry and the scenario doesn't ALWAYS work this way...but it does happen far more than it doesn't....
Is it normal he barely shows me he misses me?
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I don't agree there is a certain way to act or feel for a gender. We are all different and so are relationships. Saying one must behave a certain way for such things is naive
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You hold a recent trend of thought that seems to downplay gender. And when I mean gender I mean over a decade of getting pumped with different hormones, powerful chemicals, starting three weeks after the child is born.
I go a morning without coffee and I feel completely different, an evening of drinking too much and I feel silly. Testosterone and estrogen are far more powerful than caffeine and ethanol. They change your body and they also change your mind. You may not agree and that's fine, but by the time a boy and a girl are ready for a relationship, they're very different people from chemicals alone.
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Didn't mean to say they are not very important, but they can't define it entirely
Sorry, but you are in denial of how people, specifically women, behave in relationships. Women may talk and talk and talk about how they want "more attention" or a "nice guy" but their behaviors towards those same type of guys tell a very different story.
The man who "plays the game" and makes the woman work for his affection is far more successful with women than the guy who is constantly in contact with her. In the movies the "nice guy" may get the girl, but real life is far different. This isn't totally cut and dry and the scenario doesn't ALWAYS work this way...but it does happen far more than it doesn't....