Is it normal, guys would not want a girl if she's been raped?

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Is it normal for a guy to not to want a girl that has been raped. Apparently guys prefer a virgin to a non-virgin, because they want her to themselves, or just don't want to go where other guys have been.

What about someone who has been raped?

If this is what guys think about virginity, then what do they think about rape?

So to the guys out there...If you meet a girl, who you liked, and you'd gotten to know well... Would finding out that she was raped make her any less attractive, or make you want to avoid sleeping with her?...

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Based on 32 votes (2 yes)

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Darkoil

11 years ago | pl

Look most guys only want to sleep with virgins because they are scared that if a girl has been with a few guys then they probably will not be the best they have been with. Now guys who are actually good at sex will more likely get with a more experienced girl because she will be a lot better at sex instead of just lying there like a plank. The only guys I know that actually look for virgins are pussies. Rape is a bit different, sex aside that could be an emotional minefield that people just don't want to get intimately involved with. I know one girl who says she was raped and honestly she does not shut her fucking mouth about it on facebook, when she is drunk I know loads of guys that have fucked her becuase she is easy (also a troll) but she is not able to get a boyfriend.

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- bemah
  
  11 years ago
  
  I see what you mean about the whole virgin thing...
  
  As for that girl you know, well somehow i don't think the fact she can't get a boyfriend has anything to do with the fact she was raped. It's probably to do with the fact she won't shut up about it, and if she's sleeping with a bunch of guys, that would make her a bit of a slut wouldn't it? Who would date someone like that? Besides, i don't think many people who have been raped, openly go on about it on social networks where the entire world can see.
  
  For the record, not all people who have been raped are emotionally unstable.
  
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  - Darkoil
    
    11 years ago
    
    My point was in answer to your last question, everyone knows she was raped but a lot of people still sleep with her. I myself do not believe she was raped but at the same time I believe she believes she was raped. I wouldn't get with her, she is a nice person but I just do not find her attractive at all. If she was hot then I would get with her no questions asked.
    
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    - Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      
      11 years ago
      
      in your case i can understand not wanting to be with her, to a point.
      
      if a lot of people still sleep with her, then ... well she's an STD risk.
      
      Out of curiosity why do you think she wasn't raped? Do you think she changed her mind afterwards or something like that?
      
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      - Darkoil
        
        11 years ago
        
        As I understand it they had drunken sex at a party and then fell out so she claimed that she had been raped on the basis she was too drunk to know what she was doing. It went to court but he was found not guilty but she then joined a rape survivors group and they have put nonsense into her head about not being ashamed and holding her head high so she has taken that a little bit to literal and is always posting about it on facebook.
        
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        Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        
        11 years ago
        
        Ah I understand where you're coming from then and agree with you.
        
        If only she was drunk then she'd be indeed a rape victim but since they were BOTH drunk, then neither of them really had the capacity to say "yes" - so he's just as entitled to claim rape on her as she is on him.
        
        and i can completely understand why you wouldn't want to tap that well. cos what happens if she changes her mind afterwards?
        
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EnverhX

11 years ago

I dated a girl who was raped, it didn't change anything, I loved her very much and we still had plenty of sexy time hehe ;D

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Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

11 years ago

to be honest, you're a bit off on both assumptions.

not all men want virgins. and not all men would turn a romance aside just because she was a rape victim.

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- Terence_the_viking
  
  11 years ago
  
  This answer is awesome.
  
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Terence_the_viking

11 years ago

It's not her fault if she got raped and what happened in the past is the past.

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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

I don't think it's an issue at all. If girl is seriously traumatised and scared to engage in sexual activities then it really comes down to the patience of the guy.

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Thatguy777

11 years ago

The only thing I would be worried about are possible stds. Other than that of course not. It's not that poor girl's fault, and you can still be her only, because she's choosing you. She had no choice in whether or not to be raped.

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1000yrVampireKing

11 years ago

It would be fucked up for a man to turn down a rape victim since she is "Not a virgin" as you said. However some might not want to date her since they are unable. Some people who have been raped can not get close to people anymore. So they might panic or reject the partner they are with. So possibly some might since they do not know how to help them through it or with the issue. Some also might not realize anything is wrong till they try to be with them and that person has a fit. If not knowing better they might just be angry as they can not figure out what they did to upset her.

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CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin

11 years ago

Well Idk all i know that any girl can give me pleasure, regardless of her v-card state

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shade_ilmaendu

11 years ago

I've never had a guy turn me down for being raped, or for my consensual sexual history either. Plenty of other reasons yeah, but not those ones. XD

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- zelskid
  
  11 years ago
  
  you talk too much. Why does anyone need to know
  
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  - shade_ilmaendu
    
    11 years ago
    
    Well you see, on this website people ask questions, and they want real answers from real people. So yes, people do want to know. I don't know why, go ask them.
    
    Silly little trolls.
    
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stupidassholeguy

11 years ago

You should have made this a poll. But no, being raped dosn't make a girl less attractive

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Imsupernormal

11 years ago

Nope raped girls are yucky damaged goods. Also they are such prudes and can never take a joke.

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- bemah
  
  11 years ago
  
  Well if your joking about rape, that's just sick, and it's completely understandable why they would be offended.
  
  As for calling them "yucky damaged goods", please explain what makes you see them that way. Does that mean you would look at non-virgins the same way? Are you referring to them mentally, physically or emotionally? How are they damaged?
  
  Can i just say that "damaged goods" makes these people sound like objects, they're not for sale! They are people, if you haven't already noticed.
  
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- redneckgirl1507
  
  11 years ago
  
  What is wrong with you?!
  
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Wuggums47

10 years ago

For me I think it would be horrible to turn down a woman, or a man for that matter if they had been raped. That's like turning someone down because someone hit them with a over the head with a baseball bat, but a thousand times dumber and more insensitive. I also think it's stupid to turn someone down because they aren't a virgin. Is sexual experience a bad thing somehow?

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anti-hero

11 years ago

Where do you live? The middle east in 1713 I would guess.

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