Is it normal: guiltless sex with older, married guy.
I'm a 17 year old female and have a 24 year old fuck buddy. He's married, (I did not know this at first), and I don't feel guilty or bad at all for sleeping with him. IIN?
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I'm a 17 year old female and have a 24 year old fuck buddy. He's married, (I did not know this at first), and I don't feel guilty or bad at all for sleeping with him. IIN?
Wow, and his wife is ok for you to be in bed with them.
She is so lucky. What does she do to you?
Why am I the only one thinking a threesome
Here's some more quick one liners
Is his wife 16?
Wait is this a pastor, because I've seen how it turns out
Is this an arab?
Are you fat?
What does YOUR boyfriend think of this?
Do you think they may adopt you?
Are school dresses involved here? Oh no wonder!
Has he asked you if you have any other friends yet?
So if he loves you, then he can't put a ring on it hey?
Brothers and sisters don't count silly.
I wouldn´t blame you on this. You are not the person who is unfaithful. He is an autonomous subject here, he has cheated on his wife, you are not cheating on your partner, he is and he might know what he is doing.
(I know that my view is over-simplified, and it is easy to be argued against from moral perspective. I am not trying to offer a rational argument here. But my first feeling here was not about blaming you. But then, I am a pig in certain aspects and I can relate to your role based on my past experiences, so my view is not neutral, I admit). My final vote - normal. If you have a look at other questions where people vote normal, no surprise that someone can see this one as normal.
I don't think you're entirely blameless. It's mostly his fault because he was dishonest but you deserve at least one third of the blame. You're a willing accomplice and the "we'd already done it once so we might as well do it again" excuse doesn't wash with me. Doing it twice is worse than doing it once, and doing it more times is worse again.
On the other hand, if it wasn't you it would have been someone else. I don't think that excuses you from having done the wrong thing but it lessens the impact.
Just out of curiosity, don't you feel bad at all for his wife? Her husband is cheating on her and you're knowingly helping him. As far as you know she's an innocent victim; doesn't that make you feel guilty? I'm not saying that it should or shouldn't, I'm just wondering.
You only think she'll never know. She probably does. Whether or not she'll tell you or him is a different story.
The wife is never as dumb as you may think she is.
One of my coworkers use to cheat on his wife. When she finally told him to leave her he was shocked to find out that she knew...
But hey if that's what you want, don't be surprised if you get married and someone does it to you too. Some may even think it poetic justice. ;-)
And for everyone else...no, I really don't care what you think. So call me a slut, floozy, whore, whatever you like. I don't know you, so your opinion doesn't matter to me. And I felt guilt for about two seconds when I creeped on his wife's Facebook page...but that's about it. What she doesn't know won't hurt her. And it's purely sex, no feelings involved. So, I guess I didn't need to post this, cause I'll never feel guilty. It was way too much fun ;)
Dad...your comment is my favorite. Lmao. I suppose I'm chubby. There was no school dresses, but he liked skirts. His wife is 22 or 23, and in my opinion, that's too young for marriage. And a threesome wasn't possible because she was hundreds of miles away at an army training thing. He did, however, involve other girls... I even brought a friend along once. But I'm bi, so it was fun. And we have no relation, at all. I can't remember your other questions.
Thanks Lol
Well, you didn't actually use the 'reply' button, but just 'Add A Comment' box, so I was lucky to see this post.
Army training? Are you sure you know what you're getting into? I mean some women do go ballistic! I hope you don't own any pets, because its not nice when the psycho woman takes revenge out on those.
Anyway, just find a single guy (or girl - actually preference to girl) And then you won't have to worry about this escalating.
Yes too young for marriage, but older than you. So she might have other reasons like she thinks she can trust the one she loves! By the way NEVER ever trust this guy, done it once, he'll do it again.
Thanks for the reply :)