Do not rush into something as serious as having a baby! You will both enjoy it so much more and the kid will be better off if you wait until you're a bit older. Your girlfriend's desired for a baby are very normal (trust me!) But whilst these desires are strong, she probably isn't quite ready for it. Take some more time to grow as people first etc. and that will actually make you better parents in the future. Lastly, it must be hard for guys when a girlfriend/partner is going on about wanting a baby! But you have to give them the space to let these thoughts and desires breathe. Although, you do seem quite understanding and are sort of on the same page yourself, so I'm sure you personally don't need that spelling out to you.
Is it normal girlfriend and baby issues
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Do not rush into something as serious as having a baby! You will both enjoy it so much more and the kid will be better off if you wait until you're a bit older. Your girlfriend's desired for a baby are very normal (trust me!) But whilst these desires are strong, she probably isn't quite ready for it. Take some more time to grow as people first etc. and that will actually make you better parents in the future. Lastly, it must be hard for guys when a girlfriend/partner is going on about wanting a baby! But you have to give them the space to let these thoughts and desires breathe. Although, you do seem quite understanding and are sort of on the same page yourself, so I'm sure you personally don't need that spelling out to you.