you're really lumping in a whole ton of people here, which isn't all that great of you to do. not all queer people act in the way you were describing, and it sounds more like you're annoyed by "effeminate" behavior in general, especially when it comes from men, which ALSO isn't very nice of you. there's nothing wrong with anyone, including men, acting this way, it's just that our society puts such a precedence on men having a stereotypically "masculine" or "macho" façade going on that anything else is seen as artificial and unnatural (as you mentioned, done for attention). just let people be themselves, including people that act in the way you described, because ultimately there's nothing wrong with it, the problem is with society's strict rule-making regarding these things and your reaction, which is dictated by this societal dialogue. I hope this made sense, I had a lot of thoughts on this I wanted to get out but it all kinda came out as mush. :/
IIN gay people annoy me
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you're really lumping in a whole ton of people here, which isn't all that great of you to do. not all queer people act in the way you were describing, and it sounds more like you're annoyed by "effeminate" behavior in general, especially when it comes from men, which ALSO isn't very nice of you. there's nothing wrong with anyone, including men, acting this way, it's just that our society puts such a precedence on men having a stereotypically "masculine" or "macho" façade going on that anything else is seen as artificial and unnatural (as you mentioned, done for attention). just let people be themselves, including people that act in the way you described, because ultimately there's nothing wrong with it, the problem is with society's strict rule-making regarding these things and your reaction, which is dictated by this societal dialogue. I hope this made sense, I had a lot of thoughts on this I wanted to get out but it all kinda came out as mush. :/