I think that is the OP real issue. However effeminate men is what advertised as gay and a lot of gay men think that is what it means to be Gay. They think gay and fruity is the same thing and it really isnt. You can still be masculine and gay. To be honest feminine and cissy men annoy me as well.
IIN gay people annoy me
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I think that is the OP real issue. However effeminate men is what advertised as gay and a lot of gay men think that is what it means to be Gay. They think gay and fruity is the same thing and it really isnt. You can still be masculine and gay. To be honest feminine and cissy men annoy me as well.