Is it normal friend stuff?

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how friendly is too friendly? i can never figure out if someone's into me or hitting on me or just being normal!

so my friend and i were planning on going to a show. then they called me and said why don't i make you dinner and then we can go. they're pretty open and friendly by nature but is that normal since we're both the same sex and they know that im not straight?

more to the point, boundaries-any comment on how close is too close even for someone who's gay-friendly?

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    i know what your saying! im on the other side of the fence though, i have a hard time making friends cause like how do you do it? invite them to go see a movie or invite them over? i always worry ppl will think im coming on to them like some weirdo

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  • ilurvemyfriends
    13 years ago

    Okay. This is hard. I posted something almost like this. Okay. You're not straight right? They are of the same sex. Maybe they are just bring friendly and you're just thinking too much. If they do something like a person would do when they like someone......then I don't know what to say. I'm pretty much confused as well.

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  • hellyjellybean
    13 years ago

    Okay, it's not easy to tell sometimes.. I'd be severely careful if I was you and keep an open mind, or you may lose your friend. It's easy to get paranoid or jump to conclusions by wishful thinking. However, just going by what you say I would guess they probably don't fancy you. Making dinner for you might very well just be something that they would do for a friend anyway, and they won't treat u any differently cos you're gay. Which is fair and right as far as I can see. I am extra cautious after some bad experiences with this kind of thing. I'd say 'too' close was touching you a lot and making lots of unambiguous comments about your physical attractiveness.

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