Is it normal for your wife to get off by seeing u get a blowjob?

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It is my wife and my anniversary .We have talked about going to a swingers club . We did the smart thing and talked about the ground rules . She shocked me by telling me she has no problem with me getting a blowjob because it would turn her on . No kissing or penetration except that . She did express that she wanted to be touched by another man which at first I was against . Now I can visualize my wife jerking someone off while they stimulate her clitoris . No kissing or no penetration at all .its feels pretty fare since we both can find excitement without fucking. What's your thoughts

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  • Crafty
    7 years ago | pl

    Not into it yet. we gotta see if we even like it. That's the point of no return

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  • KingTermite
    7 years ago | pl

    It's always a risky move the first time. I would advise looking for a house party, rather than a club. You should be able to find this if you know how to look... Anyway, message the host and ask about meeting for dinner or drinks, and get to know at least this person (or more likely couple) before you go. If your local area has Meet and Greet events, definitely attend these first.

    As far as rules, remain fluid and you might be okay. You may think you know what the rules should be, but it can all change in the moment, and from event to event, partner to partner.

    There are as many variations on rules as there are people participating, so communication is very important, because just as you two have your rules, other have theirs and it can happen (gasp!) that they aren't compatible. It's okay when that happens, you just move along, there's always more fish in the sea.

    The risky bit, if you've never done it, is mostly jealously (of what the your partner is doing, or with) or emotional attachment, in all of it's various permutations.

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    • Crafty
      7 years ago | pl

      Thanks. We have boundaries that we would not cross. We also have made it clear that either one of us can tchange our minds on the boundaries we set. No upgrades though. That's where the trouble begins. I dnt know how I'll feel if someone else is touching her. there's a no penetration rule so I think I will be fine . if we can't find the right people that will respect our boundaries or both dnt see eye to eye. Well atleast they will all get a show because exhibition is right up our alley. Thx for the insight

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  • ginsters1000
    7 years ago | pl

    Encourage her to fuck. Watching another guys cock pounding your wife's cunt is just the hottest thing.

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