i have read your story and replies. my advice will sound simplistic and i hope not too condescending. Get a hobby/interest/mens group and go out more.
the stress is enormous for you both i know an the money as well , if you can manage it financially could you get someone to come in once a week and just clean the surfaces in your home? the floors and barthroom. 2 hour job it's amazing how much difference this could make. your wife might clean more herself since she would be only doing the smaller details (which are satisfying) Another tactic could be sit down and itemize things of imoportance to you both and annoyances and have that at hand to add or delete as necessary. money - maybe get her to use nearly All her time entering competitio ns, its not as silly as it sounds. long reply sorry
is it normal for your spouse to make you sick
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i have read your story and replies. my advice will sound simplistic and i hope not too condescending. Get a hobby/interest/mens group and go out more.
the stress is enormous for you both i know an the money as well , if you can manage it financially could you get someone to come in once a week and just clean the surfaces in your home? the floors and barthroom. 2 hour job it's amazing how much difference this could make. your wife might clean more herself since she would be only doing the smaller details (which are satisfying) Another tactic could be sit down and itemize things of imoportance to you both and annoyances and have that at hand to add or delete as necessary. money - maybe get her to use nearly All her time entering competitio ns, its not as silly as it sounds. long reply sorry