Is it normal for your so to refuse to tell you when they have plans?

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My girlfriend and I have been together about 6 months. My problem is she won't tell me when she has plans, and if I call her and she's busy she won't call me back - even just to tell me she's busy. I trust her so it's not that I worry she's doing anything wrong, but when I don't hear back I feel disrespected and that I'm not important enough for her to take a minute to call or text with what she's up to. I've told her how much this bothers me and that it wouldn't take much effort to let me know what her plans are ahead of time, but she doesn't understand why it's a problem.

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  • kimmiek
    13 years ago

    She doesn't think of you as her SO, and her level of respect for you is not what lasting relationships are built on. Tell her what you need in this relationship, and if she ignores your needs, move on.

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  • Alaxett
    14 years ago

    Yeah you're right, to her you're not worth of being her boyfriend. That is not how relationship suppose to be working, it's all about two-way communicate between you and her, so she better tell you about what is the hell is going on if she is serious about it.

    Either way if it's not work like you want it to be, dump her. Do it, and weight will be lift off your shoulders. She have some issues, not you, so she is not worth it.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    My girl got pissed off about this. U can't expect someone to answer their phone ALL the time. People work. Go to school. Sleep. Etc. even when someone's world revolves around u, they still need the odd moments to themselves. And if she asks me all accusingly (I hear it in her voice) "what the hell did u do all day? Did u have someone over here?" (Implying infidelity) I get angry, I shut down and flat out refuse to respond to bs like that, which probably makes the situation worse. So be careful how u ask her.

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  • Senken
    14 years ago

    6 months? damn that's a long time to build up trust! Ask her in person what she did that day. Problem solved.

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