I agree with kdblueyes. You ARE being abused. I certainly would talk to a counselor about it. Your mother should be told by a professional that she is abusive and that it needs to stop. It does sound like she has issues with males.
I would bet a lot of money that her father abused her in some way. Read everything you can about emotional and verbal abuse. Arm yourself with knowledge and learn how to lessen the pain by refusing to be a victim. You can learn to protect yourself more by finding ways to deflect the things she says.
By the way, your father is ALSO being abused by your mother. Any time that one parent feels they MUST go along with or agree with the other parent, abuse is taking place. It's serious stuff. It took me years in counseling to get over the abuse I suffered as a child. I did not know better. You do. And if you don't, keep reading stuff about emotional abuse and you will be convinced. Then get help. A counselor will take you seriously.
Is it normal for your mom not to love you?
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I agree with kdblueyes. You ARE being abused. I certainly would talk to a counselor about it. Your mother should be told by a professional that she is abusive and that it needs to stop. It does sound like she has issues with males.
I would bet a lot of money that her father abused her in some way. Read everything you can about emotional and verbal abuse. Arm yourself with knowledge and learn how to lessen the pain by refusing to be a victim. You can learn to protect yourself more by finding ways to deflect the things she says.
By the way, your father is ALSO being abused by your mother. Any time that one parent feels they MUST go along with or agree with the other parent, abuse is taking place. It's serious stuff. It took me years in counseling to get over the abuse I suffered as a child. I did not know better. You do. And if you don't, keep reading stuff about emotional abuse and you will be convinced. Then get help. A counselor will take you seriously.