Is it normal for your mom not to love you?

it's because you're a guy

it's not normal at all but I tell you what, suicide doesn't make the problem go away it just makes it so you cant live to see it.. stay strong, do as your told {for now} and when the time comes that you can move out you will be a better man because of it.

Bitchslap her.

dont hurt youself. there is something wrong with her not you.

You need a vacation. Go somewhere cheap and warm..like Bali.

I agree with kdblueyes. You ARE being abused. I certainly would talk to a counselor about it. Your mother should be told by a professional that she is abusive and that it needs to stop. It does sound like she has issues with males.

I would bet a lot of money that her father abused her in some way. Read everything you can about emotional and verbal abuse. Arm yourself with knowledge and learn how to lessen the pain by refusing to be a victim. You can learn to protect yourself more by finding ways to deflect the things she says.

By the way, your father is ALSO being abused by your mother. Any time that one parent feels they MUST go along with or agree with the other parent, abuse is taking place. It's serious stuff. It took me years in counseling to get over the abuse I suffered as a child. I did not know better. You do. And if you don't, keep reading stuff about emotional abuse and you will be convinced. Then get help. A counselor will take you seriously.

Dude chill, it isn't forever. Soon you will be an adult and can move far away, you only have one life why waste it

I'm sorry! Don't kill yourself! Talk to your dad about it! Tell him he needs to stick up for you!

I'd say this is very normal. I'm the oldest and my siblings used to lie nearly all the time to get me grounded and it worked quite well. When you get older, she might change, but some people don't realize their tendencies. My Mother still sides with my younger siblings more often than me, but she does respect me a lot more now that I'm an adult. If this is something that severely upsets you, you should talk to her about it. If she's not the talking type, just simply make a serious joke out of it like "you never treat me as good as you treat them, that's not right"- randomly.

I don't really know. All Mothers are different.

it's normal please don't do nothing crazy! how old r u?? move out if u r 18. u will be happy just visit ur fam on holidays and I bet ur mom will treat u diffrent. MOVE!

I would be willing to bet she has trust issues with men and likes being in control of them. In her mind she sees you not as a son but another male she can't trust and will hurt her. Your father allows her to control him so she treats him like a slave in her mind, he is just there to do what she can't. Either try to talk to her rationally or deal with it for the short time left and get away from her. Try hanging out with friends as much as possible so you aren't around her.

Seriously don't kill yourself please... That's not the way to solve a problem. Of course you're hurt, but just thinknthat as soon as your old enough you can get out of there...and you knw you will never treat your children like that. Have you talked to your mom about it? Maybe she is subconsiously acting this way and doesn't fully knw... My mom and I had our moments and at one time suicide did cross my brain, thank goodness I didn't go throw with it bc I was able to work through all the pain and am happy...there always is a way to deal with it but seriously don't hurt yourself or anyone else.. Talk to someone it truly helps