Im not just someone. HE asked me to marry him. been together 7 yrs. I wasnt like this til he statred to lie about other women....
And your comment implies that u wouldnt care if u DID have something to hide???
Right, I understand that you're more important to him than a stranger, but I meant "someone" in terms of "any human being." Even if my current boyfriend were looking through my phone, I certainly wouldn't appreciate it. And even if I did have something to hide, I also wouldn't appreciate it. I don't know what you meant by that last sentence.
On a different subject - has he been taking his phone with him whereever he goes for the entirety of the seven years you've been with him (or however long he's had a phone)? If so or even if it's been a trait he's had going on for just over a year, it's probably like my case - I just don't want to lose it. If it's something new then you should ask him about it.
There's a difference between looking and snooping. What if I just wanted to play a game on it? What if my phone was dead and I wanted to use yours for a second? I don't like "snooping" either but her dude sounds like he's just hiding his phone on purpose. She said he gave her prior reasons to not trust him, so her "snooping" was brought through his own foolish actions.
There's a difference between "using my phone for a second" and "looking through my phone" (as in your original post) aka snooping.
Taking the phone everywhere with you isn't a sign of hiding it on purpose - I do the same with mine because I have such a tendency to lose it if I don't do so.
You do not know what this guy did to cause this gal trust issues, so I wouldn't automatically default to accusing him of being foolish.
Thank You!!! His lies has turned me into this person, I'm trying to give him a chance to redeem himself from his mistakes but honestly this is taking toooo long!!!
is it normal for your fiance to get mad you look through their phone?
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I would get very upset if someone were snooping through my phone, even if I had nothing to hide.
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Im not just someone. HE asked me to marry him. been together 7 yrs. I wasnt like this til he statred to lie about other women....
And your comment implies that u wouldnt care if u DID have something to hide???
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Right, I understand that you're more important to him than a stranger, but I meant "someone" in terms of "any human being." Even if my current boyfriend were looking through my phone, I certainly wouldn't appreciate it. And even if I did have something to hide, I also wouldn't appreciate it. I don't know what you meant by that last sentence.
On a different subject - has he been taking his phone with him whereever he goes for the entirety of the seven years you've been with him (or however long he's had a phone)? If so or even if it's been a trait he's had going on for just over a year, it's probably like my case - I just don't want to lose it. If it's something new then you should ask him about it.
There's a difference between looking and snooping. What if I just wanted to play a game on it? What if my phone was dead and I wanted to use yours for a second? I don't like "snooping" either but her dude sounds like he's just hiding his phone on purpose. She said he gave her prior reasons to not trust him, so her "snooping" was brought through his own foolish actions.
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There's a difference between "using my phone for a second" and "looking through my phone" (as in your original post) aka snooping.
Taking the phone everywhere with you isn't a sign of hiding it on purpose - I do the same with mine because I have such a tendency to lose it if I don't do so.
You do not know what this guy did to cause this gal trust issues, so I wouldn't automatically default to accusing him of being foolish.
Thank You!!! His lies has turned me into this person, I'm trying to give him a chance to redeem himself from his mistakes but honestly this is taking toooo long!!!