Is it normal for your cousin to call you this?

Okay so I have this cousin who I write to hes currently in prison but he's always calling me babygirl, sweetie, hermosa(gorgeous in spanish), baby etc... None of my male cousins call me that but him. he's 30 yrs old btw lol... is it normal??

Is It Normal?
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  • Kids, there's nothing more cool than being hugged by someone you like. But if someone tries to touch you in a place or in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, that's no good. It's your body. No one has the right to touch you if you don't want them to. So what do you do? First, you say 'No!' Then, you get outta there! Most important, you gotta tell someone you trust, like your parents, your teacher, a police officer.

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  • He's 30 but how old r u?

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    • 19!

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  • So... why is he in prison?

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  • He wants to get into your pants.

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  • He's in prison, he's building you up so he has somewhere to go when he's paroled. And he'd fuck ya too.

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  • he could be saying that to trick his immates or he could be horny.....

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    • What do you mean by "tricking his inmates"??

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      • its simple, if his immates think he has a girfriend then they might be less likely to want to bang him

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        • Pleeeease!
          mezimire, aren't you the optimist? What a great life you must have, living in that ivory tower and wearing those lovely rose colored glasses.

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          • Hahaha, me an optimist? Im way too negative for that, and I wish I was in a ivory tower and was so ignorant. My life is shit, I view things as they are if not with probability (which is generally low) and I view things through a mirror most of the time (meaning that I see things opposite to what the are generally seen as, like good is bad and bad is good). Unless you were being sarcastic (which I can't tell if you are) im really one of the last people fitting that comment.

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            • All I meant was I doubt there is anything that would dissuade an inmate from taking what he desired, other than (possibly) the threat of death. I doubt having a girlfriend would do it, but not having had the "incarceration" experience, I'm not an expert.
              All said in fun; no harm intended.

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  • How old are you?!

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    • 19

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      • At least you are of age but, its still very weird. I think you should try to ask him about it.

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        • I kinda like it now is that weird??? :/

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          • Somewhat... yes. Perhaps, you crave attention (No, I'm not saying that you are an attention hog) and affection and you like that he at least gives it to you in some form.

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  • Maybe you should send him a letter and ask about it, if you're uncomfortable with him calling you this, talk to him and tell him. That isn't normal if he's your cousin.

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    • Im not uncomfortable it just kinda took me by surprise!

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  • naystiyy

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  • He's seducing you.

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