Is it normal for young guys to like some anal action?

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About a year and a half ago, in bed with my boyfriend, i decided to be naughty and try to 'massage' his bum a little bit, i had heard that it was men's secret pleasure, that would really surprise him and be a good experience.

Well, it was... and now he cant have enough.
Its horrible, now i feel so guilty because i have become disgusted by the act itself and for his pleasure in it.

I dont mean to be stereotypical or closed minded, (i really wasnt about this until it happened) but do you think it has a direct coorelation? you know, the anal and actually being gay?
Or is this completly normal for someone still discovering their sexuality?

He just moves his hips in a womenly manner and its disgusting because he's a hairy 90kg really powerful, usually really manly guy.

Do you think i just woke up some beast?

I've tried to make it stop, but even if 2 months pass without it being mentioned, HE WILL ask for it and feel horrible and frustrated if i say no, which is absolutely understandable, but... i didnt sign up for this, i was just trying to be kinky this one time

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago | pl

    It seems you have decided that it is unmanly for a man to express his enjoyment in sex by moving his body. I think you have put too much thought into it and are forgetting to enjoy it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Wouldn't that be a bit like thinking women who enjoy receiving oral might be closet lesbians?

    Yes, it's normal for heterosexual men to enjoy anal in the way you described.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago | pl

    It's causes the man to have a more intense orgasm when you do that for him. Its also something he cant do by himself. If you can find a little joy in being dominant for a while it might not bug you as much. He just wants it becuase it's more physically pleasing, it doesn't make him gay. It's also really healthy for his prostate, and can prevent prostate cancer. He's not gay at all

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  • ExcessiveBDSM
    11 years ago | pl

    Men have prostates, and in reality every one should enjoy anal sex if there is enough lube. The body is wired that way. Don't be selfish, my gf is a trooper, and I love her for it. I even do grosser stuff for her, as she is an emetophile.

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    • mariacachucha
      11 years ago | pl

      jesus dude, thats love for ya :) you're right though, but since there's no return of any freaky thing (i havent found my freaky thing yet) i feel quite weird thats all bt thank you

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  • Mando
    11 years ago | pl

    It is understandable that you don't want to be down there but that he enjoys it so stand your ground and maybe he can get something to stick in there that you don't have to otherwise be involved with.

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