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Okay, I know this is a bit awkward but, lately I've been looking through porn and it turns me on when old men f**k younger girls. s:
I've haven't really gotten the guts to tell anyone about it.. I'm afraid of telling my own sister about this, which I tell her everything about.
And to be honest.. I like old men for some reason.. and I do get nervous most of the time when I visit my uncle from Seattle.
Is it normal though?/:
At Lufa. I completely agree with you. I'm still talking with my 43 year old friend. He treats me very well and he's not a nasty perve to the point where all he wants is sex. Actually he treats me like a queen. We have a lot in common and we can hold up a conversation pretty good. Even though he's 43 he's still a kid at heart. He's extremely kind, gentle and he pays attention to my feelings. I would like to date him but I'm just kinda scared of the age difference. We are 17 yrs apart... Idk what to do.
Hey berttiebottz, I'm glad to you know you've had such a great experience with an older guy. Here's what I'd say, go with your heart on this and do what feels right.
If you want to be with him then why stop yourself from enjoying your time with him over something as trivial as age? We're all going to get old and die-what matters is what we do with the time we have.
In the old days age used to matter but now it really doesn't. Also savvy/intelligent people know that quality trumps everything. If a man has the characteristics I've mentioned, how can a 25 yr old who's still struggling through university compare?
For the longest time I used to make broad assumptions and generalizations about people. Now I truly believe we're all unique, like jewels. That is we all have something different and special to offer.
I used to take dating beautiful girls for granted and thought I'd always get them-but now I look around and realize how rare they are, especially if they have a good personality. So I won't be making the silly mistakes I did as a young adult and I certainly won't be taking the next great girl I'm with for granted.
I think it's a law of nature. Older men are wealthier, smarter, more experienced, distinguished and usually treat women better than younger men.
Younger girls are less jaded, youthful and of course sexier so it's a pretty good combination I think.
While I'm close to 40, I have the wisdom of my age, but mentally and physically I'm like a 25 year old. While I find younger girls around 18 to be really cute, I'll probably marry a girl in her mid-20s because they're more mature and can relate better.
But ya go for older guys, we'll treat you like a queen and expect nothing in return except maybe your smiles and love. :)