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As a male in front of whom do you hide your erections and why?
Do you care not to do it in front of others? Close friends or your father for instance. In the gym, in the shower at home when your father mother brother or sister comes into the bathroom.???
Tell me you are ashame of having a hard one in public and why?
Also among family men and among close friends it must be hidden? One should be ashamed?
I mean between male brothers, father and son or the other way round?
Aren't we all guys!
Male brothers sleeping in the same room seems nearly impossible not to happen.
Weekends father and son or living alone seems nearly impossible not to happen.
I'm sure happens when you live with women in the house as well.
In the gym's shower it happens to.
I just wanted to know what does people do in all this situations.
If they hide and why since are all male mainly.
Why to be ashamed.
Questions for guys.
I don't really get them unless I'm actually thinking about sex or a sexual act. Not like it goes up sitting on the couch with the family. I guess maybe its different for other guys maybe?
If I did however, I would hide it, it's kind of intimate. Like a state of sexual vulnerability. And people are gonna want to know why you're aroused or who you're thinking of, and my sex life between me and my girlfriend is not an open topic between me and my family. Honestly it's kind of a weird question to even wonder.
I live alone in the house and never got it around a family member while living with them and my friends and I laugh it off if I have it near them. Only when I am around people I dont know like a shop keeper, a waitress, a doctor or anybody whom I dont know very well or are meeting for the first time, Ive a problem...
Depending on what I'm wearing, sometimes I can't hide it. I like boxers better than briefs or boxerbriefs. The loose fit feels much more comfortable. The only down side is when I'm wearing gym shorts and bone up, there is nothing to hold it back, and the outline shows through the fabric pointing down and to the right. If it's just a semi, I don't worry about it. If I get fully hard, I'll find a way to hide for a minute until Junior calms down.
If I had a nickel every time one of my friends gets out of the hot tub with a hard on during our boys night out!; or my father going to the kitchen in the middle of the night!, or my brother in law because he forgot the condoms in the car!!...I could have paid for e new tub! and a new kitchen..., certainly not a new car!!...; Listen, there are parents in this world taking their teenagers to specialists to treat their kid's erectile dysfunction. Some specialist even associate the kid's problem with been "ashamed" of getting hard!!!!.....
Yes! it is a problem some kids suffer from, so if you have a kid, friend, relative that walks by with one of those erections, feel relieve that it is one thing you wont have to talk about it with them!
Finally someone sensible with a healthy clean head and consciousness of the reality.
Most sexual dysfunctions like, erectile, premature orgasm and others only treated in the psychologist or a psychiatrist for years with no ending time, are mainly guys out of families with strong religious feelings were sex is taken like something dirty and everything is a sin.
Also can be a matter of culture in others because parents they don't know how to do better when bringing up their children. There isn't a Parents Course in any University, than everyone does the way they knows.
If people could keep an open mind attitude torts the body and sex like something that takes part of our daily life things could be much easier and many problems avoid. Why to hide an erection if you have the chance not to do it!!!
To hide it from your close family, close friends and most guys that do have the same in the shower at the gym, I don't do it for sure, I'm not ashamed and never lost friends because of that. Coz just happens even if we are not thinking about sex.
I understand a couple of times can be embarrassing but very few times and not in this occasions.
I live in a naturist area, anyhow sometimes pop up some guys with textile families and it never takes more than half hour they take down the swimming trunks. Sometimes their wife's don't but children do.
To have an erection is the most common thing for a guy.
Who do I hide it from? Absolutely everyone. Yeah I know it's a normal thing but...
I guess it has something to do with me just not learning to be comfortable around other people. I don't have any close friends at all. Seriously wish I knew how to change that tho.
And having a boner around family is even worse, I mean, what if they think I was thinking about incest or something?
When it comes to my family, I get embarrassed. Unless I'm sleeping, it's common to have erections during morning, hence the slang "morning wood".
On my close friends, we take the time to laugh at it and leave it alone. The common thing that happens afterwards is either we talk about porn and girls, or just talk about something else. On female friends, I hide it.
After about the age of 14 you are able to control erections around others. This includes of course family. My brother being the exception of course. He wanted to see me hard all the time. If I wasn't, he would try to talk me into an erection. Now, of course, this was a few years ago. Since then, things have changed as far as acceptability is concerned around others in society.