UPDATE: I'm "friend-zoned." The basis was that the woman he's seeing now is amazing and he'd be too afraid to mess up our friendship since I've been the one constant through all of his relationships over the years, plus the "pressure" of me having to move out there. And if things didn't work out with us, then well…
I'm not entirely broke up about it; honestly, I expected that. I'm really happy to know he values my friendship so much and if that is the role we are meant to play in each others' lives then so be it. Maybe one day in the future things will work out as I have hoped but for now, I will continue to love and support him as I've always done.
Is it normal for years of unrequited feelings or should I trust my gut
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UPDATE: I'm "friend-zoned." The basis was that the woman he's seeing now is amazing and he'd be too afraid to mess up our friendship since I've been the one constant through all of his relationships over the years, plus the "pressure" of me having to move out there. And if things didn't work out with us, then well…
I'm not entirely broke up about it; honestly, I expected that. I'm really happy to know he values my friendship so much and if that is the role we are meant to play in each others' lives then so be it. Maybe one day in the future things will work out as I have hoped but for now, I will continue to love and support him as I've always done.