This is such an interesting fantasy. About every girl I have ever gone out with has said they had this fantasy BUT... Always the BUT. "But I don't want you to think I'm a slut". "But I don't want people to find out." So many girls want to try this but are hung up for other reasons. I had a girlfriend in college that said she had no fantasies (oh, yeah?) until I finally pried it out of her that she had always wanted to try more than one guy. We made a trip out of state to meet a friend of mine at another school and I suggested we try it. She ran out of objections and she did it, first with me and my friend, then with us and a couple of other guys at once (no DP). She loved it but then as we drove home started to feel embarrassed, convinced that "everyone would know". Ugh! She loved it but let her hangups affect her too much.
That's been my experience too Jim. They all want it, but are worried about what people will think.
While I certainly understand concern over one's "reputation", i think it's probably best when in a committed relationship in which BOTH partners want to try it, and it's made clear up-front that there won't be recriminations or even a need to feel guilty for either of them.
I think it's freakin' hot, myself. And something everybody should try at least once if they are turned on by the fantasy. Hell, just enjoy it.
Is it normal for women to want sex with several men at the same time?
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This is such an interesting fantasy. About every girl I have ever gone out with has said they had this fantasy BUT... Always the BUT. "But I don't want you to think I'm a slut". "But I don't want people to find out." So many girls want to try this but are hung up for other reasons. I had a girlfriend in college that said she had no fantasies (oh, yeah?) until I finally pried it out of her that she had always wanted to try more than one guy. We made a trip out of state to meet a friend of mine at another school and I suggested we try it. She ran out of objections and she did it, first with me and my friend, then with us and a couple of other guys at once (no DP). She loved it but then as we drove home started to feel embarrassed, convinced that "everyone would know". Ugh! She loved it but let her hangups affect her too much.
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That's been my experience too Jim. They all want it, but are worried about what people will think.
While I certainly understand concern over one's "reputation", i think it's probably best when in a committed relationship in which BOTH partners want to try it, and it's made clear up-front that there won't be recriminations or even a need to feel guilty for either of them.
I think it's freakin' hot, myself. And something everybody should try at least once if they are turned on by the fantasy. Hell, just enjoy it.