You are so right. However, there is a small % of the population that really seems to get a kick out of using,hurting, abusing,and manipulating others they call "friends". After something like that it's pretty easy to see the true colors of some people. Sad thing also some people don't know when to cut ties with assailed like that.
I was in an abusive relationship once. I still love that person as much as they scarred me psychologically and emotionally. I was never raped, even though I was dominated a lot during sex.
I'm sorry for what you had to deal with. I myself as a male am a past sexual assault victim,while I was in the military. But you have to look at things from a 3rd person perspective,if you were giving someone advice about being in an abusive and toxic relationship. Hopefully you will be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel and realize it's best for your health to avoid those type of relationships. I wish the best for you. The heart may want what it wants,but your mind will guide you to the better direction. That's your female intuition. Be sure to listen to it.
I actually spent about 25 years in depression and trying to get my head out of the mud. I know how women feel when they say "NO". I haven't been able to hold a job for more than 4-5 years, with exception i was at the post office for about 9 years. I tried to forget the past and I was doing good until a counselor for the VS asked standard questions. There was one asking into had been sexually abused while in military, and I broke down and started crying again. It brought it all back up again after I had forgot it and left it behind me.
Can I ask your age ? I'm just curious as far as how long you were mistreated etc. It's so hard to find a person that's not out to just take advantage of whoever they can get their claws in. Looking at the situation, you have to admit you are probably and obviously much better off to be alone for the right reasons instead of with someone for the wrong reasons.
I had a kind of shifty situation when I was married. My wife tells me 3 days after we got married that Bill lives with her and she's in love with him. I was stationed in San Diego in the navy at the time is how she had him living with her in Oregon while I was 1000 miles and a half a world away. But I realize also that physical and emotional abuse is a terrible thing to be a victim of. I may be a crossdresser but with all I have to give of myself I have so much respect and love for women I could NEVER beat up someone I claim to love. I have been married 2x's and dvcd 2x's.
I would really be interested in talking more with you either here in pm or thru email. I understand if you rather not. The majority of women just automatically assume that male CD's are pretty much gay. NOT TRUE.
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You are so right. However, there is a small % of the population that really seems to get a kick out of using,hurting, abusing,and manipulating others they call "friends". After something like that it's pretty easy to see the true colors of some people. Sad thing also some people don't know when to cut ties with assailed like that.
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I was in an abusive relationship once. I still love that person as much as they scarred me psychologically and emotionally. I was never raped, even though I was dominated a lot during sex.
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Thank you so much, lady.
Thought you were talking to yourself for a moment.
I'm sorry for what you had to deal with. I myself as a male am a past sexual assault victim,while I was in the military. But you have to look at things from a 3rd person perspective,if you were giving someone advice about being in an abusive and toxic relationship. Hopefully you will be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel and realize it's best for your health to avoid those type of relationships. I wish the best for you. The heart may want what it wants,but your mind will guide you to the better direction. That's your female intuition. Be sure to listen to it.
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Sorry to hear of your bad experiences and trauma.
Hope you can heal.
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I actually spent about 25 years in depression and trying to get my head out of the mud. I know how women feel when they say "NO". I haven't been able to hold a job for more than 4-5 years, with exception i was at the post office for about 9 years. I tried to forget the past and I was doing good until a counselor for the VS asked standard questions. There was one asking into had been sexually abused while in military, and I broke down and started crying again. It brought it all back up again after I had forgot it and left it behind me.
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I'm so sorry.
Have you been in therapy lately?
I've been struggling with anxiety and depression all my life so I guess I can relate.
Thanks for the advice. That person has left me for good and I've been single since.
I had a moment with a friend recently but still don't know if we will do it again.
I'm teaching myself how to be free.
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Can I ask your age ? I'm just curious as far as how long you were mistreated etc. It's so hard to find a person that's not out to just take advantage of whoever they can get their claws in. Looking at the situation, you have to admit you are probably and obviously much better off to be alone for the right reasons instead of with someone for the wrong reasons.
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I'm in my thirties and the abusive relationship started a couple of years ago and lasted a year and a half.
It almost destroyed me. Still can't believe I made it without going insane.
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I had a kind of shifty situation when I was married. My wife tells me 3 days after we got married that Bill lives with her and she's in love with him. I was stationed in San Diego in the navy at the time is how she had him living with her in Oregon while I was 1000 miles and a half a world away. But I realize also that physical and emotional abuse is a terrible thing to be a victim of. I may be a crossdresser but with all I have to give of myself I have so much respect and love for women I could NEVER beat up someone I claim to love. I have been married 2x's and dvcd 2x's.
I would really be interested in talking more with you either here in pm or thru email. I understand if you rather not. The majority of women just automatically assume that male CD's are pretty much gay. NOT TRUE.