Is it normal for two guys to sleep in the same bed

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I live with like three other guys in a one bedroom apartment while we go to University until my dad buys us a better house. One works a night shift so he like sleeps during the day, one sleeps on like a couch, and my buddy and I share the bed.

My girlfriend thinks it's like the most rediculous thing she's ever heard but I'm like whatever right we're just bros so it isn't like gay or anything

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  • gulaurfo
    6 years ago | pl

    If girls can share a bed then guys can too.

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  • redrainbow22
    6 years ago

    Ive slept with my friend before in the same bed.

    That doesnt make you gay. Just friends hanging out

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  • edwininthematrix
    6 years ago

    back in high school I used to have sleepovers with my best friend and we would share the same bed in his room and stay up half the night playing video games and talking. there was nothing weird about it.

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  • relight
    6 years ago

    My bf has slept in the same bed with his male friends, same as I have slept in the same bed as female friends. I know he is 100% straight so I don't see the big deal. It's actually super cute imo :)

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  • tuple
    6 years ago

    Is it like three other guys or is it actually three? Could it be two or four? And does one sleep on like a couch or an actual couch? Is it a chaise longue, or a sofa, or a pouffe?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      One sleeps on the sofa, like a love seat. I sleep in the bed with a buddy, and the guy who works night shifts sleeps in the bed alone during the day when like no one else needs it.

      Four guys including me

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      • tuple
        6 years ago

        But do you like like it, like like like like like like like?

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  • Shackleford96
    6 years ago

    Only if you sleep butt to butt, not the other way, lol

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    6 years ago

    It's probably just because she has a visual image of the two of you waking up next to each other every morning pitching a tent together.

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  • _Mehhhh_
    6 years ago

    I think it's normal. If you're there to sleep and not to have sex then no, it doesn't make you "gay"

    I've shared beds with straight guys before in a non-sexual way, typically out of inconvenience but still. While I was backpacking in Thailand we shared quite a few times when the only rooms available were double bed rooms, and I've done it after parties while staying at friend's houses.

    (I am gay, but these guys were straight and it was not sexual in the slightest).

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  • Kallari
    6 years ago

    Totally fine and normal, just a bit inconvenient.

    You do sound kinda ungrateful tho...

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  • CozmoWank
    6 years ago

    Is it a single bed and you both sleep in the nude?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Nah double bed and trunks or sweats. That'd be gay lmao

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      • peculiar007
        6 years ago

        do u top and tail or sleep the same way round?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Same way, it's only temporary until we get the new house. My dad is just an ass and is taking like forever to buy it

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          • Nickvey
            6 years ago

            id buy you a fucking gun

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          • Tammysnice
            6 years ago

            Your dad is a dumb ass

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  • Ratmanforelife
    6 years ago

    Why can't like somebody like sleep on like the floor. You're like all males so like what's the like problem. I like don't like understand?

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    • peculiar007
      6 years ago

      you like using the word like don't you?

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        6 years ago

        He's making fun of the way I talk lmao he must be a hick or something

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        • jethro
          6 years ago

          How does that make him a hick?

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  • randypete
    6 years ago

    it is ok to sleep with another guy

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    sharing beds with a dude it's normal if his wife is between you . of course she did accuse me of touching her butt that night when he was in the shower . i wonder why she made that up?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    What??

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    • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
      6 years ago

      Maybe your bed mate is a homo sneaking a feel in the middle of the night🎼🎵🎶... Do you ever see each others boners in the morning?

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