I feel like your boyfriend is just stirring the pot. If he didn't want to cause trouble, and make you feel uneasy about the situation, he would've never told you that he talks with this girl. And he would probably explain to her that he's taken and that he's sorry but he doesn't have the same feelings for her. And he'd end all communication with her. In the end it would help her, him and you.
I'll be the first to stand up and say, IT SUCKS LOVING SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T RETURN THE SAME FEELINGS, but honestly, it's life! It's gonna be really f-ing hard, but she needs to either learn to deal with it by accepting it and moving on with her life, or she can check herself into a mental institution, because that's where shes gonna end up obsessing over someone like that. She's making herself sick.
And I read that Mando said your boyfriend is manipulating you and that girl, Mando is right on. But I also think that what the girl is doing is a very sneaky form of manipulation too. She told your boyfriend that he's the only reason she goes there everyday for TWO years. That right there, sounds like she's trying to play it like she's a wimpy victim. Decipher it. "Oh boo hoo... you don't understand. I'm almost near death without you." That's what it sounds like. And I would totally know because "I" thats right, me. I've played that same card before. No, I never told anyone that I was dying without them, but I did act as though my world was crumbling around me. And no, I never ended up in a mental institution. But I was getting ridiculous relying on a guy the way I was. I was just 15 and I thought this one guy was my LIFE. That girl might have family troubles that are more hard then anyone else's might be, but she still can't depend so much on someone else like the way she's leaning on him. But he's no angel either. Look at how he's stringing her on. And look at what he's doing to you. Tell him to either cut all ties or you're gonna have some problems. And I don't mean to scare you, but a part of me believes he's gotta feel at least a little something for this girl.
IIN for this girl to be in love with my boyfriend for 2 years?
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I feel like your boyfriend is just stirring the pot. If he didn't want to cause trouble, and make you feel uneasy about the situation, he would've never told you that he talks with this girl. And he would probably explain to her that he's taken and that he's sorry but he doesn't have the same feelings for her. And he'd end all communication with her. In the end it would help her, him and you.
I'll be the first to stand up and say, IT SUCKS LOVING SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T RETURN THE SAME FEELINGS, but honestly, it's life! It's gonna be really f-ing hard, but she needs to either learn to deal with it by accepting it and moving on with her life, or she can check herself into a mental institution, because that's where shes gonna end up obsessing over someone like that. She's making herself sick.
And I read that Mando said your boyfriend is manipulating you and that girl, Mando is right on. But I also think that what the girl is doing is a very sneaky form of manipulation too. She told your boyfriend that he's the only reason she goes there everyday for TWO years. That right there, sounds like she's trying to play it like she's a wimpy victim. Decipher it. "Oh boo hoo... you don't understand. I'm almost near death without you." That's what it sounds like. And I would totally know because "I" thats right, me. I've played that same card before. No, I never told anyone that I was dying without them, but I did act as though my world was crumbling around me. And no, I never ended up in a mental institution. But I was getting ridiculous relying on a guy the way I was. I was just 15 and I thought this one guy was my LIFE. That girl might have family troubles that are more hard then anyone else's might be, but she still can't depend so much on someone else like the way she's leaning on him. But he's no angel either. Look at how he's stringing her on. And look at what he's doing to you. Tell him to either cut all ties or you're gonna have some problems. And I don't mean to scare you, but a part of me believes he's gotta feel at least a little something for this girl.