Is it normal for them to hate me this much?

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So it all started about five years ago when my parents had just gotton a divorce and my life went really down hill. I started to post some emotional and very sad quotes on my facebook wall and I guess my family dident respect what I was saying in them. At family holidays they would bring up the subject of how my mom cheated on my dad, and of coarse that is going to make me mad. So the only thing i would say is "dont talk about my mom like that" and then a huge argument would start and everytime it ended with it all being my fault for speaking up. Im growing up and boys are starting to take more effect on me. They break up with me so I put up some Emo status on facebook and my family talks about it all behind my back. It even got to the point I had to block the entire family on facebook. I dont understand why they care so much. Its like the only things about me that stand out to them is all the bad things. I dont want them to hate me but they do. It has gotten to the point that they dont even want to go to the family beach house when I go because they dont want to deal with the drama. I dont start drama, they do. They call me a drama queen all the time and I dont even talk anymore. They have no idea how hard it is to live my life so they really dont have any reason to be judging me. Please Write back and give me some advice please im desperate!

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Start sucking cocks as soon as you can. At least then you will have some value.

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  • Coachskau
    12 years ago

    Murder your parents.

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  • phee
    12 years ago

    I think your family don't want you to have any bad traits that they see in Your Mother. And if they didn't care then they wouldn't comment, they obviously hurt over the whole break up situation and are taking out their frustrations on you (as your a part of your Mum) talking to your parents about how you feel is important, unfortunately children get put on the back burner and still in ear shot of the whole argument! So stand up and be heard, that you too are a big part of the family and you want to live your life without the disruption that they have caused. Don't vent on facebook, write a letter to the person and let it all out, then throw it in the bin. You have released your anger and tossed it in the trash. It always makes me feel better.. good luck hun :)

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  • beanietat101
    12 years ago

    Your gonna take advise from someone called "dailynews"..-.-"
    You have problems, you sound young and i know its really hard to step into someone elses shoes after a long time of pain, but look at it from ur side then ur parents then try to adapt urself. Even for a day. If it doesnt get better, conference with u parents and express how u feel then ask them to come to a compromize. Hope it gets better. :D

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  • dailynews
    12 years ago

    I've never been through anything like this, so I don't know how good my advice will be. To me, it's hard to talk about my emotions to other people, so what I do instead is I talk to God. You may not have accepted Jesus into your heart, but I know that when I did, He really changed my life. People are telling me how much more I smile and how happier I seem to be. So, consider it. I'll be praying for you!

    One of my favorite Bible verses to read when I'm lonely is psalm 34:18. "The LORD is close to the broken-hearted and saves those crushed in spirit."

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  • bumblecreek
    12 years ago

    what grade are you in..8th?

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Quit posting shit on facebook or at least do it cryptically. For instance, instead of writing my cousins a fucking cock sucker, write my cousins a fuzzy sock sucker. Got it? Good.

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    • peterr
      10 years ago

      Are you a cocksucker? Sounds like it.

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  • forevercg
    12 years ago

    honestly stop being emo...you sound super young and should just try talking to your mom and dad about it once everything is good with you and them you can move forward and what ppl say wont bother you

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    oh teh drama...

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