Is it normal for the wife to do the least amount of work during sex?

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Is it normal for a wife to barely contribute excitement or energy every time we have sex? I try and mix it up, but she seems to have the same routine of mainly laying on her back and I do the majority of the work. She pretty much never gets off her back or side. She uses her hands on me, which I like however, I'm usually trying to mix it up because we've been together for over 15 years and I need some more excitement and for her to get off her back once in awhile.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    lmao...my bf says the same thing. truth is it is difficult to unwind from the day and get into it like ur wanting everytime all the time. the excitement is gone. there is no thrill. instead of asking her to move give her a reason to. take a random drive out in the country somewhere and watch the sunset...listen to some music. give her enough time to unwind so she can be more responsive to it. maybe its time for a vacation...or a night out dancing or whatever she and u do to cut loose. go grocery shopping with her on a saturday and lead her into the grocery store bathroom and have ur way with her.
    i miss all that. i miss the excitement and the creative things that my bf and i could muster up when we first got together.
    my alltime favorite year to date is when we went driving on some back roads..came up on this abandoned house with no nearby neighbors so we pulled in by the house and walked the lot...then we started messing around and he kinda forcefully put me up on the trunk of the car and warmed me up orally. and out of nowhere it just started downpouring. the rain was bouncing off my breasts and we looked at each other laughing and kept right at it. best sex we ever had. in that moment nothing else mattered but us. it was awesome.(smiling)

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago | pl

    Welcome to the realization of your marriage.

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  • gashlover
    9 years ago | pl

    If you want her to get off her back, next time slip it in the back and she'll get moving. hehehehe

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  • bam361
    12 years ago | pl

    dude im 22 and my wife is 24 thats all she does the most she does off her back is doggie, even when shes on top which is like once in a blue moon i still due all the work..... it marriage....but spice it up make her work for the pleasure, tease her get her to want it....

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