Maybe they are straight, only they know. I do not feel that a person can be labeled just by their activities. They can,however, be labeled by their preferences.
If you tell your girlfriend that the dress she is wearing that she absolutely thinks is beautiful,looks good on her when you know that it has little to be desired, does that mean that you are a liar or did you just tell a lie? If you know how to change the oil in your vehicle or put on a tire, does that make you a mechanic? If you masturbate in front of a mirror and watch yourself stroking your penis and while doing so, providing that you have the ability to do so, bend down and take your penis in your mouth and start sucking to completion, are you then gay and if not, why not? In that instance you have touched a dick, stroked a dick, sucked a dick and took results of that in your mouth. You have engaged in four activities which are by some peoples definition gay and the fact that it was yours really doesn't make a difference.
People are who they live their lives as and we can only take them as such. A guy grows up his whole life with a penis that he looks at several times a day, touches at least twice a day, strokes it when the mood arises and watches as ejaculate shoots out of it while in a sexually aroused state. They have admired how it looks and enjoyed the way it felt in their hands and have compared it to other penises he has seen. Why then would a guy be disgusted by the sight or even the feel of something that he has had a fascination with his whole life; he wouldn't.
So is it so hard to believe that some people might just see it that way and just indulge in an activity that they have repeated many times throughout their lives, kind of like masturbation with help.
We only know people by what they tell us and want us to know, so most of the people who we know as "straight" maybe, just maybe take part in activities that have been labeled as "gay," however, will be classified as "straight" because that's what they have told us and that is what we've seen. If you asked every straight man if they have ever touched or sucked another man's penis, do you actually think that the ones who have will answer that question truthfully?
So in the whole scheme of things... it really doesn't matter, people are going to be who they are and do what they do. No one has to agree with it or see what someone else does as any of their business.
Remember, "Down Low" is a term given to straight people who have been found to engage in what some consider as "homosexual" activities.
IIN For The Guys I've Been With To Consider Themselves Straight
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Maybe they are straight, only they know. I do not feel that a person can be labeled just by their activities. They can,however, be labeled by their preferences.
If you tell your girlfriend that the dress she is wearing that she absolutely thinks is beautiful,looks good on her when you know that it has little to be desired, does that mean that you are a liar or did you just tell a lie? If you know how to change the oil in your vehicle or put on a tire, does that make you a mechanic? If you masturbate in front of a mirror and watch yourself stroking your penis and while doing so, providing that you have the ability to do so, bend down and take your penis in your mouth and start sucking to completion, are you then gay and if not, why not? In that instance you have touched a dick, stroked a dick, sucked a dick and took results of that in your mouth. You have engaged in four activities which are by some peoples definition gay and the fact that it was yours really doesn't make a difference.
People are who they live their lives as and we can only take them as such. A guy grows up his whole life with a penis that he looks at several times a day, touches at least twice a day, strokes it when the mood arises and watches as ejaculate shoots out of it while in a sexually aroused state. They have admired how it looks and enjoyed the way it felt in their hands and have compared it to other penises he has seen. Why then would a guy be disgusted by the sight or even the feel of something that he has had a fascination with his whole life; he wouldn't.
So is it so hard to believe that some people might just see it that way and just indulge in an activity that they have repeated many times throughout their lives, kind of like masturbation with help.
We only know people by what they tell us and want us to know, so most of the people who we know as "straight" maybe, just maybe take part in activities that have been labeled as "gay," however, will be classified as "straight" because that's what they have told us and that is what we've seen. If you asked every straight man if they have ever touched or sucked another man's penis, do you actually think that the ones who have will answer that question truthfully?
So in the whole scheme of things... it really doesn't matter, people are going to be who they are and do what they do. No one has to agree with it or see what someone else does as any of their business.
Remember, "Down Low" is a term given to straight people who have been found to engage in what some consider as "homosexual" activities.