Is it normal for the first time to hurt so badly?

I think you should of "played" around more before complete intercourse. By playing, I mean getting fingered. It helps your Va get used to things like that. (&, its fun. ;) )

maybe you should have waited

Normal. It hurt for me,I enjoyed the pain a little bit though.

Well. Lost men virginity beng raped in a foreign county, once my hymen (cherry) was popped I was unconscious for the rest and yes it did hurt soo

It's normal. My first time hurt but wasn't terrible. The third time was the WORST... could have just been cause he was tripping on ecstasy though.. hmm

No i liked the pain

I cried from the pain and I didn't cry when I got a foot tattoo. I have friends say it wasn't bad, but it rally hurt for me.

Your Va is getting used to it it's not used to that.

Have a hot bath.

Was your hymen still intact ( cherry)? I'm guessing that would hurt a little when that breaks.

It happens.