Is it normal for someone to feel this way about themselves?

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Ok, so most of my life ive had very poor self image. My nickname in high school was the anti boner, and I'm mistaken for a guy all the time. I think I'm really ugly; I have a normal body but nothing is soft enough or feminine enough, I have strong hands, not girly hands, and my eyes are way too small. It's to the point where I want to get my face, my hands and my knees surgically altered so I can maybe look better.

I've tried to see myself in a better light but I don't even know where to start. I honestly believe that I'm that ugly, because literally everyone thinks so.

I get so angry when I see pretty girls wearing their cute shit and posing for pictures, and I hate seeing people with so much confidence, flaunting themselves and going on about how greet they are. It seems like it's so conceited and self centered to think good things about yourself..

I know posting this here probably won't do me any good, but there it is.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago | pl

    Those people who gave you that nickname are
    a-holes! I'm sure you aren't that bad. There's someone out there for everyone, and despite what those rude people say, I'm sure you really are beautiful. It doesn't matter what they say. Don't change for anyone! You don't need to get surgery to change anything!

    And everyone feels like they're not good enough sometimes, but if you feel this way all the time, and it's effecting you this badly, you should speak with someone about it. You're beautiful the way you are.

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago | pl

    You are who you are, and there will never be someone like you again. Love yourself, embrace yourself. The fucking cock sucking imbred butt fuckers that made fun of you will get what they deserve.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago | pl

    :) thanks you guys, your kind words truly helped..

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  • xoxo29
    12 years ago | pl

    Everyone has insecurities! Some of us just have to work harder to get over them! We are our own worst critic. I'm sure that you are not as bad as you say you are! Good luck! And ignore all those irrelavant dumb fucks who talk bad about you!

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  • johnho
    8 years ago | pl

    If you have one good friend, talk to that person. (If you don't be your own best friend) Don't think bad things about yourself. Do something nice for a stranger and don't tell anyone. You know you did it and god knows you did it. Say something nice to someone you don't know. Tell them you like their shoes shirt? Don't be obsessed with your own image. Feel good about yourself and others will see you differently.

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  • imachicken
    9 years ago | pl

    lol i hate the way i look too

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    I was able to really identify with this post! I feel the same about myself. People who are naturally really gorgeous & flaunt it all the time irritate me. It makes me think they must judge someone like me who isn't as pretty as them.

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