You could have screwed up, or she might have a few screws loose. It's also possible you have all the social skills of a bull walrus in the mating season, and she's as crazy as a crate full of rabid raccoons.
Looly is right: sometimes women know very quickly that there's no point. If she had that opinion after one date, you would have been battling against that judgement constantly if she'd agreed to see you again, and it could have been a thoroughly unpleasant experience.
Blocking you without any comment is kinda rude, but I think lots of women don't bother even trying to be polite these days. If they do try to let a guy down gently, that often either ends up with the spurned guy telling her he's fine with that because she's a worthless slut anyway, or him trying to explain away whatever was said or done that turned her off.
If you have a female friend or two whom you trust to give you an an honest assessment, you could try running through what happened with them to see if they have any insight into where things went wrong.
Alternatively, you could just chalk it up to experience, assume she was right in deciding you and her wouldn't work, and move on.
IIN for someone to do this?
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You could have screwed up, or she might have a few screws loose. It's also possible you have all the social skills of a bull walrus in the mating season, and she's as crazy as a crate full of rabid raccoons.
Looly is right: sometimes women know very quickly that there's no point. If she had that opinion after one date, you would have been battling against that judgement constantly if she'd agreed to see you again, and it could have been a thoroughly unpleasant experience.
Blocking you without any comment is kinda rude, but I think lots of women don't bother even trying to be polite these days. If they do try to let a guy down gently, that often either ends up with the spurned guy telling her he's fine with that because she's a worthless slut anyway, or him trying to explain away whatever was said or done that turned her off.
If you have a female friend or two whom you trust to give you an an honest assessment, you could try running through what happened with them to see if they have any insight into where things went wrong.
Alternatively, you could just chalk it up to experience, assume she was right in deciding you and her wouldn't work, and move on.