Is it normal for someone to avoid eye contact?
My friend always acts nice whenever we hang out but recently seems to be avoiding eye contact with me. I don't know why. Normal?
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My friend always acts nice whenever we hang out but recently seems to be avoiding eye contact with me. I don't know why. Normal?
There could be many reasons for this. If it's a recent change, I would ask myself what else has changed about him or his circumstances. Could it be that he's feeling low? A guilty conscience? A change in the way he feels about you? Just some things to take into consideration...
I sometimes break off eye contact with people because I've been told eye contact with me can be uncomfortable. One person said it was like I was looking too deeply, another thought I was judging them. It doesn't help that I usually look like I'm thinking about something and if I'm looking at someone at the same time, they think I'm try to unravel them or something. I think the truth of it is that I'm quite bad with body language so I'm just looking to understand things any way I can.
Not suggesting this is the case with your friend, just trying to highlight that there can sometimes be unexpected reasons why people avoid eye contact.
If you are a guy and your friend a girl, or your friend a girl and you a guy, eitherways opposite gender, I think you should be cleaver enough to realise his/her new feelings. Dont be so sure yet though, give it more time, observe the situation and if it really is that way and if you do think he/she means more than a friend to you then: Confess!
No, it wasn't always this way..my friend just started doing this..and my friend dosn't have autism. could it mean being uncomfortable?, feeling guilty about something? or maybe just being shy all of a sudden? or even lieing? who knows..I'm just curious as to why some people do this.
Only he knows why... Here's what I would do: when you're alone with him, wait for a quiet moment, then look into his eyes. When he looks away, ask him if he's okay. Say something like "Are you alright? You seem a little different." Be vague and let him do the talking. Listen and watch him very closely for any more clues.