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So everytime my boyfriend and I have sex I feel like he's only looking and for his needs and not mine. When he finishes, he's finished and just lies around silent. And I've talked to him before about me not ever being done but he never does anything about it. I'm wondering if I should just buy a dam toy.
You should have sex with his best friend. That will get the message across nicely. Lol I'm half joking... seriously though he is not pleasing you, he is using you and that is totally unacceptable! That isn't a relationship. Sex is a really important part of a relationship. It should show that your boyfriend loves you and cares about you. In your situation the sex is making you feel the opposite. If I were you I would either explain to him why it's so important and refuse to do anything sexual until he changes or I would break up with him and find someone who treats you the way that you deserve to be treated.
Get rid of him and find a guy like me who strongly believes "ladies first" and "it's not so much about the destination"
U shud just not have sex with him... Make him appreciate what he has.. Dont let him use u basically to just masterbate.. Thats wat his hand is for.. Make him crave and want you.. And I bet he'll come around
does he go straight into humping and pumping or does he pleasure you first?
Sadly, yes it is normal. It's not nice though.
I direct you to Lily Alan's song "Not Fair"
break up and buy him a plastic vagina as a breakup gift.because that is what you are to him now.
Dump him. He's using you. What an inconsiderate asshole. Maybe he's secretly gay.
it's offten like this with my bf, too.
i also don't know what to do about this,
he says he knows that he enjoys too much and is giving too less. but he doesn't change.
and i really like seducing him, but i would like to see more action from him.
Not only should you stop having sex with him, but when he starts to ask questions, say something like..
"Meh, I just feel like everytime we do I'm punching in at work. If you revved me up I'd be so much more into it"
That's what I did
No, it sounds like you and your body are being used. Not a healthy situation.
He needs cunnilingus lessons and you need to teach him how. Its not unusual for a healthy woman to need 30 minutes of more of stimulation to cum and you're entitled to it; its your birthright for bringing the pussy to the party. Teach him hiw or lose him. No one needs a bad lover who doesn't want to improve
He just has sex with me until he's done. Sometimes I think in my head does he finish to quick or do I just take too long?
I've an idea - why don't you suggest that if he has a problem with premature ejaculation he should go to the doctor :o)
haha. Make it his problem that he can't pleasure you. He'll be out to prove you wrong ;o)
If that fails, tell him to f**k away off!
He's the wrong one for you and you're wasting your time.
i for one, as an 18 year old male who actually enjoys sex, always try to get the lady to cum first. i get upset at the thought of not satisfying the girl, to the point where after a one night stand i felt awful because i came too soon and she didnt climax. i just felt guilty all day. IIN? GET A NEW GUY!
my friend had the exact same thing where her guy would literally hump until he came and then that was sex over, after 5 minutes. no foreplay, just straight penetration. whats the rush?
I doubt it's because you take too long. Most guys LIVE to pleasure the girl first, once I was having an off day, and my boyfriend and I were having sex and I told him I didnt think I was going to be able to finish, and he got really upset. I would maybe try mentioning it to him again.
haha this reminds me of a quote in history "remember the ladies" by abigail adams. hehe
Don't you fucking hate that? Well u know what tgey say about boyfriends that don't get head, same could go for girls that don't get what they need either