Is it normal for parents to hit their children as punishment?

I do not condone it myself personally. I'd like to see the minds of people who believe this to be a rational thing to do. Comment your thoughts

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Based on 61 votes (40 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • Golias

    I believe there are things that only "enter" with a good slap. But honestly it's very hard to draw the line between education and abuse, so I'd say be very moderate.

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  • Earlover_Earlover

    No parents should hit their children for punishment. Parents should make them understood the good and bad things by explanation and conversations only. This is the proper way of treatment, otherwise to hit children is illegal in almost all countries.

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  • Meowypowers

    If they need a smacking, I will for sure

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  • JustMolly

    I'm going to assume you mean spanking. If I have kids I won't do it. I'm a firm believer in using your words. I think that spanking is outdated, and that the people who hit their kids out of anger instead of punishment are totally wrong. Spank your kid to teach them consequences, not because they annoyed you. But, all kids react differently, and there is a very thin line, so I think it's still better to just not do it at all.

    Some parents will give their kids a light smack on the bum to get their attention when they have done something especially naughty or dangerous (like if they were about to touch a hot stove), but won't hit them hard enough to actually hurt them. This in my opinion is okay, and I don't think it will scar them mentally, but it depends on the circumstances. Should a parent spank a kid over dropping their ice-cream? No, tell them to be more careful next time. Should a parent spank their kid over deliberately going against your word to ride their bike down a hill without a helmet? Maybe, but I still think that It would be more practical to just explain to them why it's wrong and how to do better.

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  • raisinbran

    If you really love your kids, how can you hurt them? Premeditated physical punishment is something only psychopaths do, and they usually enjoy it.

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  • leggs91200

    Kind of a last resort. Maybe a way to punish for rebellion. Like say they know they are doing wrong but keep doing so.

    Of course it is easy to say and think of certain punishments as right or wrong when having a calm conversation about discipline but when you are fed up and frustrated with some brat's behavior, suddenly things change.

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  • kelili

    I remember in the last high school day I got dead drunk with friends. When I reached home my mum slapped me so hard. Ouch, I don't remember everything that happened on that day but I do remember that slap. It makes me laugh now.

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  • shaw19

    It normal if they wont listen hit them real bad they need to learn who is the boss.

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  • FinDuMonde

    Parents should DEFINITELY use corporal punishment on their misbehaving kids! There is a huge difference between spanking and abuse. Spanking a misbehaving child can be very beneficial for the child.

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  • chuy

    The bible says it, it most be ok. who am I too judge the holy word right?.

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    • JustMolly

      If your god said to jump off a cliff, would you do it?

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      • WarriorGene

        Only if I get 72 virgins afterwards. But this time they shouldn't play Magic the Gathering...

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        • JustMolly

          well at least you get something in return, and aren't following blindly!

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      • chuy

        Depends on how high of a cliff😝

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        • JustMolly

          If you would refuse to jump off a high cliff because it could hurt you, then that means you should be able to refuse hitting your children because it would hurt them. You seem very selective about the things you will and won't follow...

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          • chuy

            You like to argue eh?.

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            • JustMolly

              Debating things isn't necessarily bad, especially when you have a valid point

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