I think you're completely on point about this! Those much older guys who are leering at you are creeps and disgusting pigs. I remember how much that sort of attention disgusted and grossed me out when I was your age, I feel for you and my heart truly goes out to you!
As far as I'm concerned the best part about being in my 40s is getting some peace and respect. I also think that now that I'm older I'm less afraid of hurting or offending some jerk or having someone not like me or think I'm some kinda bitch. Nowadays I honestly don't give a shit what some asshole thinks as long as he leaves me the fuck alone.
If someone sexually harasses you at work please feel free to go to Human Resources! It really is disgusting how unashamed, forward and entitled some men are, and you have my complete support.
Some things that can help you feel safer and more confident are working out, especially weight training and martial arts!
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It's still not an excuse. A 38 year old modeling photographer made a pass at me when I was 19, a human resources manager tried to make a pass at me when I was 20 and the list goes on unfortunately. I didn't appreciate unwanted attention 25 years ago and I still don't appreciate it today. I think the business about physical beauty shouldn't be an excuse to be inappropriate with another person.
Just looking is one thing, but leering and actually trying to touch or make a pass at at unwilling person is something completely different.
looking is innocent and maybe they even think they are doing it surreptitiously. but hitting on is a different thing and harassing of course :). if you are 19 years old is it really disgusting to get attention from guys age 20-25? i mean there is hardly age difference there :O?
well said. Less than a hundred years ago in USA , Europe, Australia etcetera gt was 100percent normal for a man of 45+ to take a bride of 19 or younger. In many many cultures it still is
You should be flattered, also when she is in her 20, 30, 40s I'm sure she will still check out a good looking young man, and imagine the drama if he was to object!
IIN for older guys to look at me?
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I think you're completely on point about this! Those much older guys who are leering at you are creeps and disgusting pigs. I remember how much that sort of attention disgusted and grossed me out when I was your age, I feel for you and my heart truly goes out to you!
As far as I'm concerned the best part about being in my 40s is getting some peace and respect. I also think that now that I'm older I'm less afraid of hurting or offending some jerk or having someone not like me or think I'm some kinda bitch. Nowadays I honestly don't give a shit what some asshole thinks as long as he leaves me the fuck alone.
If someone sexually harasses you at work please feel free to go to Human Resources! It really is disgusting how unashamed, forward and entitled some men are, and you have my complete support.
Some things that can help you feel safer and more confident are working out, especially weight training and martial arts!
;-)
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Ah bullshit!
this is a windup , right?
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Windup? Some guy had posted an angry response to my comment, but now the comments is gone. Oh well, no big deal.
probably because most PEOPLEs physical beauty peeks at around this age
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It's still not an excuse. A 38 year old modeling photographer made a pass at me when I was 19, a human resources manager tried to make a pass at me when I was 20 and the list goes on unfortunately. I didn't appreciate unwanted attention 25 years ago and I still don't appreciate it today. I think the business about physical beauty shouldn't be an excuse to be inappropriate with another person.
Just looking is one thing, but leering and actually trying to touch or make a pass at at unwilling person is something completely different.
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I seriously doubt that you get the attention you are describing. You sound like a miserable bitch to me.
looking is innocent and maybe they even think they are doing it surreptitiously. but hitting on is a different thing and harassing of course :). if you are 19 years old is it really disgusting to get attention from guys age 20-25? i mean there is hardly age difference there :O?
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well said. Less than a hundred years ago in USA , Europe, Australia etcetera gt was 100percent normal for a man of 45+ to take a bride of 19 or younger. In many many cultures it still is
You should be flattered, also when she is in her 20, 30, 40s I'm sure she will still check out a good looking young man, and imagine the drama if he was to object!
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Harassment is not flattering.
No, 20 to 25 isn't a big deal when they person is 19, but 40 is a big deal and it's disgusting.