Hmm, people can have pretty complex feelings about sex. I've seen girls express simar things and conventional wisdom has been 'yes, he' s using you for sex, and if you say no and he still does it, then it's rape'. It shouldn't be different if the gender roles are reversed. Sex can be a powerful distraction from other very important aspects of a relationship.
is it normal for my wife to use me like a piece of meat?
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Hmm, people can have pretty complex feelings about sex. I've seen girls express simar things and conventional wisdom has been 'yes, he' s using you for sex, and if you say no and he still does it, then it's rape'. It shouldn't be different if the gender roles are reversed. Sex can be a powerful distraction from other very important aspects of a relationship.