Hi Jenny! Thanks for taking your time out for such a comprehensive reply. With your handicap of having to analyse on the mere paragraph, and not knowing us in person, you have hit a few nails pretty close to the head.
In fact, I have pledged a few days ago to seriously lose the extra kilos. The walks with my wife are also on.
I guess I just need to stay positive and engage her more wholesomely.
While I am the quiet type, I am not a total introvert; however, I do need to take more interest in others, be more social, so to say.
The aspect of my wife sleeping with the other man- well, I can put it down to a culture thing; in our part of the world, perhaps it is slightly more from left field than you may imagine. But then, where do we lay the line on 'faithfulness' in a marriage?
Is chatting with someone else showing a lack of faith? Is the line at hugging? Kissing? ***ing? I would say that if you are emotionally bonded, the biological aspects are of an academic relevance.
But if your better half is emotionally bonded with someone else, does that mean your marriage is over?
What I'm trying to say is - in today's age of faster and quicker connections, the bonds and definitions of marriage need a revision.
Is it normal for my wife to go on a holiday with my friend
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Hi Jenny! Thanks for taking your time out for such a comprehensive reply. With your handicap of having to analyse on the mere paragraph, and not knowing us in person, you have hit a few nails pretty close to the head.
In fact, I have pledged a few days ago to seriously lose the extra kilos. The walks with my wife are also on.
I guess I just need to stay positive and engage her more wholesomely.
While I am the quiet type, I am not a total introvert; however, I do need to take more interest in others, be more social, so to say.
The aspect of my wife sleeping with the other man- well, I can put it down to a culture thing; in our part of the world, perhaps it is slightly more from left field than you may imagine. But then, where do we lay the line on 'faithfulness' in a marriage?
Is chatting with someone else showing a lack of faith? Is the line at hugging? Kissing? ***ing? I would say that if you are emotionally bonded, the biological aspects are of an academic relevance.
But if your better half is emotionally bonded with someone else, does that mean your marriage is over?
What I'm trying to say is - in today's age of faster and quicker connections, the bonds and definitions of marriage need a revision.