Is it normal for my stepdad to touch my butt?

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My real dad left me and my mom when i was a baby. Few years later like 4-5 my mom married this guy. Hes really nice, he gets me and i always tell him what goes on in school, and stuff like that. And i mostly get along with him. 4 Months ago it was during summer time , he started touching my butt slightly every time i went to bed. I know that because sometimes i pretend im sleeping but im actually awake and my stepdad comes in my room and runs my butt slightly and brushes his hands on my leg. I haven't told anyone , im scared and confused. i don't know it its normal or not . Hes been doing that several nights on summer then he stopped and just now he did that again. Please help. i don't know what to do.

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  • litnas
    11 years ago | pl

    That is molestation, tell your mother about it. He might try to do something even worst than that if you don´t take action.

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  • eat@theY
    11 years ago | pl

    Please tell your mother or teacher or someone SOON! This will not just go away...trust me.

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  • pogos
    11 years ago | pl

    How old are you?

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  • Saucey1679
    11 years ago | pl

    if he is attractive, my advice is to go with the flow...
    but if your seriously afraid lock your door- tell someone like your mom.
    at the same time it might be hard to hurt your mom like that, if your really scared you need to do it... if all he does is touch your butt i would just lock your door, put something infront of it that would make a loud noise if unlocked. if you have a sister, tell her! if he is coming to you- you dont know what he could be doing to her.

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  • bumblecreek
    11 years ago | pl

    this is not good and he needs to stop. even though you may be close to him, it sounds like he's getting nasty thoughts, and it's hard for people like that to control them. it's like a mental illness. if you let this go you'll be even more hurt in the future. tell your mother or somebody you can trust.
    i'm really sorry you're going through this.

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  • ObsessedWithReedus
    10 years ago | pl

    Please tell someone! Seriously thats not good

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  • Geneva5
    10 years ago | pl

    Easy /

    Cable ties

    Scalpel

    Penis removal

    Blow torch to heal wound.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago | pl

    How old are you?

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  • onehandinthehoneyjar
    11 years ago | pl

    he has never hurt you has he? he has never forced you. he is not mean to you. he is hoping you like it. if he finds out you really don't and are not comfortable with it, he will stop. and if you really do want him to stop, tell him and him only. he will appreciate it and he will respect you for it. he doesn't sound like a creep to me. he is just turned on by you and is testing the waters. no need to be confused. privately, tell him how you are feeling about it one way or the other. be honest and open and confident. do not be upset with him and do not fear what his reaction might be. you can't go wrong with this approach.

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  • chubbawubba69
    11 years ago | pl

    Are you male or female?

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  • LOUi_CUDi
    11 years ago | pl

    thats not normal at all. One day he might try to do something worst than than touch ur butt. Do something before is to late. TELL YOUR MOTHER.

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