There's nothing shallow about wanting to dump someone who is simultaneously so abusive, and neglectful towards you! This is actually your best idea yet! He sounds like a person who gets off on degrading you, and eroding your self-esteem.
Dump him like the trashy piece of garbage he is. He probably enjoys hurting your feelings for purpose of using you for narcissistic supply.
Search Google, and YouTube for narcissistic abuse, honey!
I don't get how he's abusive. If he doesn't want to go down on this whiny complaining bitch then that's how it is not everyone likes to be the one giving oral i don't get how that makes him abusive.
... and it certainly doesn't make them loving, or deserving of love. I could NEVER love someone who was so selfish, and entitled as to expect me, or any woman, to perform certain sexual favors that he himself would be unwilling to reciprocate. People who cannot give, and recieve equally are bad for the self-respect, and self-esteem of those poor souls who manage to get involved with them for fear of being alone.
I hope OP leaves the awful person she is with, and never looks back!
Would you be happy in a relationship with a woman who never wanted to give you oral sex, but expected that you give it to her?
Like I said, some people are repulsed by the act of giving oral but are happy to receive it. If their boyfriend is not comfortable giving oral then there is nothing wrong with that and that doesn't make them abusive.
Would you be happy in a relationship with someone that wanted you to do something you weren't comfortable with?
I still think he's a narcissistic abuser. He asks her to perform oral sex on him, but refuses to return the favor, and that is unfair, hypocritical, selfish and opportunistic. OP is clearly a very entitled, selfish and unloving person. He won't even get her a decent vibrator. He probably gets off on using her for whatever he wants, and doing nothing to please, and or satisfy her!
People who are repulsed by performing oral sex shouldn't be asking their partners to perform oral sex on them. If anything OP ought to tell him that doesn't want to it, and then be done with, and done with him. He just a selfish user, I could NEVER love someone like that, because as far as I'm concerned someone like that is undeserving of my love, and favors. OP needs to just leave him, because I'm sure he is taking advantage of her loneliness, and desperation in more ways than one.
I will gladly answer your question from the second paragraph just as soon as you answer mine! I don't appreciate you completely disregarding my question, and then having the nerve to expect that I answer you question! Now please answer my question.
Would you be happy in a relationship with a woman who never wanted to give you oral sex, but expected that you give it to her?
Is it normal for my partner to not like doing oral sex to me?
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There's nothing shallow about wanting to dump someone who is simultaneously so abusive, and neglectful towards you! This is actually your best idea yet! He sounds like a person who gets off on degrading you, and eroding your self-esteem.
Dump him like the trashy piece of garbage he is. He probably enjoys hurting your feelings for purpose of using you for narcissistic supply.
Search Google, and YouTube for narcissistic abuse, honey!
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I don't get how he's abusive. If he doesn't want to go down on this whiny complaining bitch then that's how it is not everyone likes to be the one giving oral i don't get how that makes him abusive.
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It's abusive, neglectful and unloving, because he receives, but does not give. There's no reason for her to stay with him. He's a jerk!
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Like I said, some people prefer to receive rather than give. That doesn't make them abusive.
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... and it certainly doesn't make them loving, or deserving of love. I could NEVER love someone who was so selfish, and entitled as to expect me, or any woman, to perform certain sexual favors that he himself would be unwilling to reciprocate. People who cannot give, and recieve equally are bad for the self-respect, and self-esteem of those poor souls who manage to get involved with them for fear of being alone.
I hope OP leaves the awful person she is with, and never looks back!
Would you be happy in a relationship with a woman who never wanted to give you oral sex, but expected that you give it to her?
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Like I said, some people are repulsed by the act of giving oral but are happy to receive it. If their boyfriend is not comfortable giving oral then there is nothing wrong with that and that doesn't make them abusive.
Would you be happy in a relationship with someone that wanted you to do something you weren't comfortable with?
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I still think he's a narcissistic abuser. He asks her to perform oral sex on him, but refuses to return the favor, and that is unfair, hypocritical, selfish and opportunistic. OP is clearly a very entitled, selfish and unloving person. He won't even get her a decent vibrator. He probably gets off on using her for whatever he wants, and doing nothing to please, and or satisfy her!
People who are repulsed by performing oral sex shouldn't be asking their partners to perform oral sex on them. If anything OP ought to tell him that doesn't want to it, and then be done with, and done with him. He just a selfish user, I could NEVER love someone like that, because as far as I'm concerned someone like that is undeserving of my love, and favors. OP needs to just leave him, because I'm sure he is taking advantage of her loneliness, and desperation in more ways than one.
I will gladly answer your question from the second paragraph just as soon as you answer mine! I don't appreciate you completely disregarding my question, and then having the nerve to expect that I answer you question! Now please answer my question.
Would you be happy in a relationship with a woman who never wanted to give you oral sex, but expected that you give it to her?