I guess this depends on how well you know your own mother. If you are older, you should know by now if she is just trying to be humourous by being sarcastic. Sarcasm is something not all people understand and a lot of people dont like sarcasm. Sso its sometimes ahrd to know when they are being serious or just being sarcastic, hence the frustration some people have sith sarcasm.
You need to have a frank discussion with your mother about it. Let her know that you are bothered by it a great deal and ask her if it was her intent to actually just be joking around in a sarcastic manner or whether she really was serious about her comments. In any case though, make it clear that it hurts your feelings and you want her to stop. Ask her to say more positive things instead. A mother and child should be getting along with each other in a good way and be antagonistic towards one or the other.
Don't bottle up your emotions as that can lead to an explosive emotional outburst that can be very disastrous to any relationship whether its friends, family or coworkers. Have that one on one conversation in private with her and hopefully she will respect your decision to open up ablut your feelings. Don't bring up up the topic when others are around as that can lead to unexpected responses and defensiveness. Talking about this is a private one on one matter.
Is it normal for my mom to make fun of me?
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I guess this depends on how well you know your own mother. If you are older, you should know by now if she is just trying to be humourous by being sarcastic. Sarcasm is something not all people understand and a lot of people dont like sarcasm. Sso its sometimes ahrd to know when they are being serious or just being sarcastic, hence the frustration some people have sith sarcasm.
You need to have a frank discussion with your mother about it. Let her know that you are bothered by it a great deal and ask her if it was her intent to actually just be joking around in a sarcastic manner or whether she really was serious about her comments. In any case though, make it clear that it hurts your feelings and you want her to stop. Ask her to say more positive things instead. A mother and child should be getting along with each other in a good way and be antagonistic towards one or the other.
Don't bottle up your emotions as that can lead to an explosive emotional outburst that can be very disastrous to any relationship whether its friends, family or coworkers. Have that one on one conversation in private with her and hopefully she will respect your decision to open up ablut your feelings. Don't bring up up the topic when others are around as that can lead to unexpected responses and defensiveness. Talking about this is a private one on one matter.