Sounds like my Grandma. Some people just don't take marriage that seriously. It's supposed to be a lifelong comittment, but some people legitimately believe that a marriage is really just a documented, long term relationship.
Your Mom has issues, but it's really not all that uncommon.
yeah but mom ever said to me "who wants to marry like 4 times and failed again and again? everyone wishes to get married once for a lifetime but i think this is my destiny. i hope my daughters and son could understand." then i couldnt say a word after been told like that. i couldnt get angry or anything, only sat down with poker face, confused between raising my opinion or supporting her or pretending like nothing's wrong.
Well, if all she sees marriage as shade above said, as a legal union, then of course she is going to feel that way.
I don't necessarily believe in this philosophy, that marriage should just be treated like a piece of paper, because the same people that say that it should be would flip if their spouse cheated on them or decided to throw out that paper in favor of someone else.
Marriage is what you make of it. Some of us choose to believe that it is a deep commitment, a life commitment, between two people. Some people, like your Mother, believe that it's just a "legal union". People need to understand that what Marriage means is different for everybody.
My only worry is the men that she is bringing into your life only to have leave your life.
yeah too bad if mom sees marriage as a legal union. and i'm not sure if her last marriage will be ok. because nowadays mom doesn't talk about her husband. once she does, it's all bad. oooh i won't she divorce again, shame on me and my siblings. wish me luck.
IS IT NORMAL FOR MY MOM TO GET MARRIED LIKE 4-5 TIMES?
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Sounds like my Grandma. Some people just don't take marriage that seriously. It's supposed to be a lifelong comittment, but some people legitimately believe that a marriage is really just a documented, long term relationship.
Your Mom has issues, but it's really not all that uncommon.
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yeah but mom ever said to me "who wants to marry like 4 times and failed again and again? everyone wishes to get married once for a lifetime but i think this is my destiny. i hope my daughters and son could understand." then i couldnt say a word after been told like that. i couldnt get angry or anything, only sat down with poker face, confused between raising my opinion or supporting her or pretending like nothing's wrong.
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Well, if all she sees marriage as shade above said, as a legal union, then of course she is going to feel that way.
I don't necessarily believe in this philosophy, that marriage should just be treated like a piece of paper, because the same people that say that it should be would flip if their spouse cheated on them or decided to throw out that paper in favor of someone else.
Marriage is what you make of it. Some of us choose to believe that it is a deep commitment, a life commitment, between two people. Some people, like your Mother, believe that it's just a "legal union". People need to understand that what Marriage means is different for everybody.
My only worry is the men that she is bringing into your life only to have leave your life.
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yeah too bad if mom sees marriage as a legal union. and i'm not sure if her last marriage will be ok. because nowadays mom doesn't talk about her husband. once she does, it's all bad. oooh i won't she divorce again, shame on me and my siblings. wish me luck.