Is it normal for my mind to wander off this much?

It's usually whenever I'm reading something or in a conversation. I try to pay attention to every word but all of a sudden a certain idea or phrase reminds me of something or makes a scenario in my head that makes me forget my present state and focus on the thought.

For example, the other day a friend was telling me how her aunt just converted to christianity. Then suddenly the phrase "holy ghost" pops into my head, and then I remembered how much I'm uncomfortable with the topic of ghosts. Then I imagined how cool it might be to be a ghost without all the grief and misery and just travel where I want to. Then this whole cinematic scene forms in my head with my transparent body soaring through the night sky looking down on a glowing city.

When she noticed the conversation went to a pause she kinda snapped me out of it. I was embarrassed when I couldn't recall much of what she said after my focus started to fade. I'm sure if she hadn't called me back to earth I would have just been standing there for another 10 minutes getting to know my ghost girlfriend who I crashed into flying through an old night club. It's always occurred since childhood and by now I thought I'd grown out of it but I'm 16 and having a hard time dealing with friends and school because of it. My parents don't seem to understand either.

I'd like to know whether or not this is normal. Any advice would be highly appreciated.

Is It Normal?
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  • I'm not sure I can give you much advice, but I will say I get what you mean and it's often the mark of a creative mind. Sometimes I just imagine whole worlds and vast landscapes in my head within a second. Sometimes just randomly and I kind of 'go there' for a bit. I suppose my advice would be write some stories or something. Use these ideas. You're 16 and are probably being told that how well you do at school is the be all and end all for life. However, whilst it's important, that's not strictly true. Lots of people get creative whilst still at school (writing, art, music etc.) It's good to have something going on as well as your school work. Just a thought and it also might help you to focus your mind.

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  • Okay, here ya go. I went from thinking about trash because we had just went to the dump to thinking of what I wanted for breakfast for the next morning which led me to thinking of what I had had for breakfast that morning (sausage biscuit) I then began to think how the sausage began to get repetitive and how I might get a sausage biscuit and a egg and cheese biscuit the next morning and just eat the sausage till it got repetitive then thought I might just as well buy a sausage egg and cheese biscuit then take the egg and cheese off and put it back on when it got repetitive then I thought about the McGriddles and how my Dad liked them and how I thought they were nasty then I thought about how it was like taking my usual breakfast (pancakes, eggs, bacon, and toast) and putting it all together which got me thinking about how my cousin doesn't like her food to touch which got me thinking how she eats sandwiches since the ingredients touch the bread so I called her up to ask and she said she didn't like it when her sides like peas, corn, mashed potatoes, etc. touched which got me to thinking about.... I won't bore you any longer, anyway, I didn't read your story yet so I'll do that but that is how my mind wanders, I'll think about one thing then go on to the next and so on till I realize I've wasted 30 minutes thinking about random stupid shit.

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    • Your thought process actually just made me really hungry lol. I could really go for a sausage & egg breakfast right now :-P

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  • Write a story please.

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  • I bet you're an awesome at brainstorming.

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  • Where is my mind

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  • It's normal for a tiny thing from the outside world to open door after door after door after door in your head. Sometimes regular conversation seems too fast, to me, because there isn't enough time to think over each interesting idea.......But it would be good to not get like this in college : /

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