How our species is changing is a very interesting way of thinking about it.
Me being pregnant has nothing to do with it. He has never been that interested in sex. Not even with other girls. A few of his relationships ended just because he was not sexually active enough for them.
It is not really about the sex, its about the lack of intimacy. If there was no penetration I would be fine. I just need that want, the kissing and touching kind of stuff.
Is there any other opinions you could give me? Perhaps from other stories you have read.
I'm sorry I got so far off base.
I believe our society has made it very difficult for many men to be affectionate. The "showing their feminine side" jokes are plentiful and many men feel that being the strong, silent type is important to women. The indestructible protector. Men don't cry, shit; you know.
I would imagine you have already talked to him about this? Harping, pleading, crying or fighting won't help. Can you just snuggle into his arms when he's watching TV on the couch? Offer him a night out on you (of course it's a date, but you don't have to tell HIM that) to a comedy club (my favorite date spot), or Riverdance, or; you know him better than I. Get him to join you for walks and hold his hand. Hell, take him to Hooters and let him ogle the girls, but sit close and show all of them that this is your guy. He should get the idea and be happy to be with you, because you let him look without disapproval.
Take him to bed early and give him a full body massage. As silly as it seems, do onto him as you would like him to do unto you.
He's probable lazy, complacent and perhaps a little bored (not being mean, but I've been there) and therefor feels no need to be affectionate. You are his woman, he provides for you and takes care of you, as you do for him, of course, so what else should he have to do?
I think you get the idea. Good luck.
I am happy to say that we do do all that kinda stuff. And the comedy night at the club is one of ours favorite spots as well :). Also, he doesn't mind to show his feminine side with me. I encourage it. As for looking at other woman, I tell him it is fine as long as it is just looking. But he has no interest in other woman at all. Which I would love but with him it worries me because if he doesn't want to look at other woman and he doesn't look at me either it makes me think that he might be gay. I highly doubt it but the thought is still in my head.
Communication between us is very well. We talk about everything. When it comes to this issue though he says he doesn't know why. Sex, deep kissing, touching ect. just doesn't interest him much.
I have fail to include that when he is in the mood, he is very intense and passionate.
Is it normal for a guy to only want it 3 times a week? Am I the one that is not normal for wanting it more and thinking it is a problem that he doesn't?
Is it normal for my man not to want sex? I need help!
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How our species is changing is a very interesting way of thinking about it.
Me being pregnant has nothing to do with it. He has never been that interested in sex. Not even with other girls. A few of his relationships ended just because he was not sexually active enough for them.
It is not really about the sex, its about the lack of intimacy. If there was no penetration I would be fine. I just need that want, the kissing and touching kind of stuff.
Is there any other opinions you could give me? Perhaps from other stories you have read.
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I'm sorry I got so far off base.
I believe our society has made it very difficult for many men to be affectionate. The "showing their feminine side" jokes are plentiful and many men feel that being the strong, silent type is important to women. The indestructible protector. Men don't cry, shit; you know.
I would imagine you have already talked to him about this? Harping, pleading, crying or fighting won't help. Can you just snuggle into his arms when he's watching TV on the couch? Offer him a night out on you (of course it's a date, but you don't have to tell HIM that) to a comedy club (my favorite date spot), or Riverdance, or; you know him better than I. Get him to join you for walks and hold his hand. Hell, take him to Hooters and let him ogle the girls, but sit close and show all of them that this is your guy. He should get the idea and be happy to be with you, because you let him look without disapproval.
Take him to bed early and give him a full body massage. As silly as it seems, do onto him as you would like him to do unto you.
He's probable lazy, complacent and perhaps a little bored (not being mean, but I've been there) and therefor feels no need to be affectionate. You are his woman, he provides for you and takes care of you, as you do for him, of course, so what else should he have to do?
I think you get the idea. Good luck.
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I am happy to say that we do do all that kinda stuff. And the comedy night at the club is one of ours favorite spots as well :). Also, he doesn't mind to show his feminine side with me. I encourage it. As for looking at other woman, I tell him it is fine as long as it is just looking. But he has no interest in other woman at all. Which I would love but with him it worries me because if he doesn't want to look at other woman and he doesn't look at me either it makes me think that he might be gay. I highly doubt it but the thought is still in my head.
Communication between us is very well. We talk about everything. When it comes to this issue though he says he doesn't know why. Sex, deep kissing, touching ect. just doesn't interest him much.
I have fail to include that when he is in the mood, he is very intense and passionate.
Is it normal for a guy to only want it 3 times a week? Am I the one that is not normal for wanting it more and thinking it is a problem that he doesn't?
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I can't say about other men, obviously. I guess from here you are going to need some feedback from women.