IIN for my long term partner (10+ years) to want to marry as friends

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  • not normal to NOT have sex in a relationship(unless your a 15 yr old kid)
    but neither of you are kids. she needs help to deal with her issues.
    i have gone through abuse from my x husband, and i have a daughter with my x. i also miscarried twice before i got pregnant. we tried and tried over and over. she needs to get over herself and the things that happened to her. she needs to realize that was the past and she needs to move on with her life and doesn't she want to be happy again?
    why ponder on something that happened 10 yrs ago(or so long ago) and continue to be depressed about it?you know what i mean?
    i understand the part where she does not want to have sex, because that i show i currently feel because my x also cheated on me the entire time we were married. so it will be a long time for me-because all this in my life that occurred is recent like from this year. but her shat is from 10 yrs ago. thats a bit too much and not normal for her to have moved on with her life and herself. i know as a woman for me, it may take me up to 1 yr till i find a decent guy to hook up with or date again.
    but 10 yrs is fkn ridiculous and NOT NORMAL SHE NEEDS HELP!!!

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    • the last paragraph first sentence typo at because that i show-i meant to put because of how i currently feel

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