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In our lovemaking hubby has asked me what I thought about letting him watch me have sex with another guy. I've never thought about it because my hubby satifies me completely. I would never think about cheating on him, but I find the fantasy a turn-on. What do other readers think?
First, let me thank you all for responding to my question. I really appreciate your replies.
In response to Carolann, I agree, in that case it wouldn't be cheating. We have agreed that if we do a threesome, it would be someone hubby and I both approve of. If the experience went well, we feel as Cleosdoc said, it could bring us closer together in our intimacy.
Darkoil also has a valid point; however, I think we are going to try a threesome and see how it works out. Hubby isn't jealous, as he said when we were discussing this, he is secure in my love for him - and I love him with all my heart - and wouldn't think of falling in love with another guy. Many people can't, but we can separate love and sex.
Stay tuned and I will let everyone know how it worked out, it may be as early as this weekend. Thanks again.
Sandy
If you want a threesome because you think it will fix something, DON'T!
If you want a threesome and you're already close and just think it would be fun, then probably OK.
I have threesomes that are completely meaningless with men I don't care for...
But I am shallow and self-centered so I get over that aspect quickly.
Oh yeah, almost forgot.
You could go with picking a guy you like, but I'd recommend against that being a starting point.
No, don't make that invitation to a threesome dependent on him being a nice guy or fun to be around or good with pets. Not to be crude, but he is there to fuck. And so are you. Pick based on that and you'll have no chance of any romantic complications.
I have sex with one man I absolutely detest, and he detests me. We fuck like wild animals and that's all there is to it. And it is wonderful.
Historically in my family, you get married to bring families together for money or power, or rarely for love, and you have someone else for sex. That old european tradition.
Wow! You had a very good time! And I am sooooo glad your hubby is so into it. Actually. I don't care that much for FFM. When I'm with a girl, the guy seems like a third wheel. More fun for the two of us. Just me I guess. But I have no problem imagining what you did :-)
Maybe with you and your hubby I could indulge myself...
Front and back with two guys though...YUMMY!!! One of my faves. I could do that all day. Wish I could do that in the office. "Send up a couple of boys from the mail room..." Or would that be male room?
You planning on meeting the guy you got the number from by yourself? Might be a little soon for that.
Love it if we could meet too. You, me and a couple of guys. Or you and me and ten guys. That is a fun first experience, or a tenth.
Hi CarolAnn,
Thanks for your kind words. The threesome was more thrilling than either one of us had anticipated, the thrill of being with another guy and watching and pleasing my hubby. I'm very vocal, and that night I needed a gag, but hubby and our partner wanted to hear me go for it. I really did...<g> He was a litle larger than hubby and he could see (above, depending on the angle) my moud rise when he entered me. After our partner finished, hubby took over and I sucked our partner while hubby took me from behind. By the time we were finished, it was near 6 AM and our partner had to leave.
Last night we went out again, this time we decided to pick up a woman for hubby and myself - in the quest for higer sexual thrill. We met guys and 2 women, I took one guy's phone number and will probably call him, probablyu for next weekend. Hubby and I both danced with the very attrative woman, that's when I learned she is also bi. We dance seductively and hubby almost came when we kissed at our table, even the women and giuys at the other table urged us on, but we left and had a beautiful FMF threesome. You can just imagine what happened and we did it.
Yes, I wish there was some way you and I could meet.
I lost my password for Tnkerbell26, so I created another name and will not lose this password. This site hasn't sent my lost password yet. Anyway, I promised o let you know how our threesome went. I posted one but the site said it was too long, so hope this will suffice.
We found a guy we both approved of and after a couple of weeks we invited him to join us in a threesome, being newly divorced he was at first nervous as we were also.
Our threesome went perfect, hubby wasn't jealous when I started moaning; in fact it excited him more. we had a fantastic time, and hubby and I belioeve it has enhanced our lovemaking.
Words of caution, if a couple really aren't sure at first, don't do it, hubby and I were sure. We plan to do it aagain.
Sandy
Hi Sandy,
Just saw your post in another thread and commented. So glad you had fun! Dish up some details! Fun you included the date. I was also very naughty with some gentlemen on that Saturday.
Can't wait to hear about your success in your next encounters. Wish we could play together so I could see your face as you reach every new height.
Creirdyddlydd
Your husband and I share the same fantasy of seeing our wives with other guys. I recently told my wife of my MFM fantasy, she said no. OK, life goes on. It will remain only a fantasy in my mind.
I'm glad you can seperate sex and love. My one fear was the possible emotional attachment to the other guy, especially if he were a friend. My wife is easily persuaded by friends. Be careful in all aspects of your new adventure. Hope you both have the most exciting time!
54Chimes, thank you. I understand why your wife said no, I'm sure I've had the same thoughts she has, You have a wonderful wife and you sound like a wonderful husband. My hubby got me to discussing my fantasies with him and the more I talked the more I thought about it. Our first MFM occurred last weekend March, 19, 2011 and we have no regrets whatsoever, it's enhanced our lovemaking, but I can understand that it's not for every marriage.