Is it normal for my husband to not wanting to eat me out?

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we have been in love for several years and when we started to be together sexually.. He used to lick me down there and eat me And i enjoyed it as much as i enjoy giving him a blowjob to see him pleased and happy .. All at suddan when we got married just very recently he stopped doing it for me ..
And it bothers me so much that he get what he wants and i dont ..
I used to shave in the past and get all cleaned up before sex and used flavored creams .. Now i even did total hair removal full body including bikini area just to enjoy as much sex life as possible..
Disappointingly, he just stopped doing it
And it makes me feel aweful !
I can't enjoy the process and i got bored of giving him heads and receive nothing
And my mind gets all distracted every time he gets his hand down there and i wait for it and ... Nope doesn't happen !

Im too shy to discuss this with him
I even try to avoid sleeping with him cuz I don't enjoy it like the old times ..

Guys please help !

Is it normal to suddenly stop it ? Doesn't he like my body ? Or he is not attracted to me anymore?
And is there is any way i can tell him this in a nice way ..
I'm affraid that i get all heart broken having to tell him and he just tells me something bad about my body :(

Is It Normal?
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  • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
    8 years ago | pl

    Try to get over your reluctance and talk to him. How are you ever supposed to know what's wrong if it he doesn't say it?

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  • volozi
    8 years ago | pl

    Suddenly avoiding it sounds weird. Generally speaking I like doing it, however on my current GF it isn't pleasant. I won't go into details but I suggest asking him about it.

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    • Dede0987
      8 years ago | pl

      Actually just after posting this question he did it by himself and i was surprised.. I thought he went through my phone or something!!!
      But i noticed that he does it sometimes and other times he doesn't!!

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago | pl

    It's normal in that it's common for guys to be sexually selfish and lazy. Tell him how much you'd appreciate it or write a sexy note. If that doesn't work then don't give him oral either.

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    • Dede0987
      8 years ago | pl

      I try to comment on that like joking that he is lazy and selfish but i don't think he gets it

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  • VirgilManly
    8 years ago | pl

    You really need to ask him.

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  • Dede0987
    8 years ago | pl

    Im 167 cm and 58 kg .. And yes I workout! And im quite fit and we dont have kids yet .. He is a bodybuilder and he helped me from the beginning to keep fit even when i gain little weight i start a diet and double my workout!!! So i dont think thats it :(

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  • Fish1973m
    8 years ago | pl

    I love the taste of pussy, id stay down there for hours if I could but I also like to put my cock in there

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago | pl

    You have to tell him. It's not his fault if he doesn't know.

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  • ChildMolester
    8 years ago | pl

    Did you have a kid and all the sudden ballooned up and got fat? Are you fat? Do you workout?

    If you are Obese then make sure you are within the normal BMI range. It's your duty to take care of your body and maintain an attractive fitness level for your man. Too many woman are content with being fat slobs nowadays. Don't be one of them and if you are this may be the reason for your hardship

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