Getting married again is probably stirring up a lot of the past he never fully recovered from with his previous wife. Even though you're not the same woman, he may feel like he's thrown back in the same situation. Instead of focusing on the porn, see how he feels about being married again; but try to be open with the discussion and don't take things personally. You might find yourself helping him through trauma he was unable to heal from by himself.
I think like a lot of women I tend to focus a tad inwards, from what you and Duhast have said I can see why it could be difficult for him and how it might be habit rather then a complete conscious decision to lie. Thanks for the response, like I said above this process has been surprisingly helpful!
Is it normal for my husband to lie about watching porn?
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Getting married again is probably stirring up a lot of the past he never fully recovered from with his previous wife. Even though you're not the same woman, he may feel like he's thrown back in the same situation. Instead of focusing on the porn, see how he feels about being married again; but try to be open with the discussion and don't take things personally. You might find yourself helping him through trauma he was unable to heal from by himself.
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I think like a lot of women I tend to focus a tad inwards, from what you and Duhast have said I can see why it could be difficult for him and how it might be habit rather then a complete conscious decision to lie. Thanks for the response, like I said above this process has been surprisingly helpful!
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I sound a bit mean there ^! I mean most women I know which is pretty much me, my sisters and my mom...